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<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:geo="http://www.w3.org/2003/01/geo/wgs84_pos#" > <channel> <title>THE MANAYS</title> <atom:link href="https://themanays.com/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /> <link>https://themanays.com/</link> <description>FINISH THE MISSION.</description> <lastBuildDate>Tue, 05 Mar 2024 15:21:22 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en-US</language> <sy:updatePeriod> hourly </sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency> 1 </sy:updateFrequency> <image> <url>https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/image.jpg?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1</url> <title>THE MANAYS</title> <link>https://themanays.com/</link> <width>32</width> <height>32</height></image> <site xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">119675946</site> <item> <title>Embracing the Sabbath</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2024/03/05/embracing-the-sabbath/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2024/03/05/embracing-the-sabbath/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 05 Mar 2024 15:16:33 +0000</pubDate> <category><![CDATA[Foundation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Impact Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Training]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Teaching]]></category> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2024/03/05/embracing-the-sabbath/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>The Sabbath is a day of rest and worship observed by Jewish people on the seventh day of the week; it also holds significant theological importance in Christian traditions. As … <a href="https://themanays.com/2024/03/05/embracing-the-sabbath/" class="more-link"><span>Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Embracing the Sabbath</span></span></a></p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2024/03/05/embracing-the-sabbath/">Embracing the Sabbath</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Sabbath is a day of rest and worship observed by Jewish people on the seventh day of the week; it also holds significant theological importance in Christian traditions. As we explore the concept of Sabbath from a Hebrew theological framework and its resonance within Filipino Christian practices, we can gain insights into how this ancient tradition remains relevant and meaningful in our contemporary lives.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">My Journey to the Sabbath Rest</h2> <p>My life’s pace was once dictated by the relentless beat of survival. As a gang member and a drug dealer, the concept of rest was alien to me. Days blurred into nights, and the only rhythm I knew was the hustle and grind of the streets—a chaotic cadence that promised neither peace nor longevity.</p> <p>Salvation came like a thunderclap on a clear day. Jesus, with an offer of redemption, met me in the midst of my turmoil. The transition wasn’t instant; the life of crime slowly gave way to a life of service. Ministry became my new mission, and I approached it with the same fervor I had in my past—always moving, always pushing forward. The idea of rest remained a distant, almost foreign concept.</p> <p>Then the world came to a standstill. A pandemic swept across the globe, and in the silence of lockdowns, I heard a whisper—a call to hit the reset button on a life that was constantly in motion. The stillness was uncomfortable, unnerving at first. It was in this global pause that I discovered a profound truth: I had escaped the hustle of the streets but had become ensnared in the hustle of ministry.</p> <p>The Sabbath crept into my life quietly, a divine invitation to lay down the weight I had been carrying. It was an ancient practice, one I had read about but never truly understood or integrated into my life. The Scriptures spoke of a God who rested on the seventh day, not from exhaustion but as an example for us to follow—a pattern for wholeness.</p> <p>I began to carve out one day a week, then two, then three times a day, along with intentional periods throughout the year, for rest and communion with the Lord. It felt counterintuitive at first to step back, to be still. But in that stillness, I found a deeper connection with Jesus than I had ever experienced in constant activity.</p> <p>The Sabbath became my sanctuary, a sacred time where the hustle was hushed, and my soul was replenished. It was in these moments of quiet that I found strength to sustain myself and my ministry. The streets had taught me the importance of always being on guard, always ready to move. But the Sabbath taught me the power of being still, of trusting that the world could turn without my hand pushing it.</p> <p>As I integrated this divine rhythm into my life, the transformation was palpable. The days of rest became a wellspring of rejuvenation for the days of labor. My ministry no longer rode on the back of weariness but was propelled by renewed energy and clarity of purpose.</p> <p>Now, I stand as a testament to a life reclaimed, not just from the darkness of crime but from the relentless pace of a world that never stops moving. The Sabbath rest—a gift from God—has become my lifeline, a weekly retreat where I lay down my burdens and rise again, refreshed and ready to serve.</p> <p>In the quiet hush of the Sabbath, I found a sustaining force that carried me through pandemics and the myriad challenges of life. It is here, in the sacred pause, where I am reminded that I am not a machine of perpetual motion but a beloved child of God, called to both work and rest in His grace.</p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Rest and Recovery in Jesus</h1> <p>In the bustling life of a Filipino, rest is often a luxury. We are a people known for our <em>bayanihan</em> spirit—helping one another, often to the point of sacrificing our own well-being. But in Jesus, I discovered a different kind of rest, one that transcends physical relaxation and enters the realm of the soul.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Kapahingahan sa Panginoon</h2> <p><em>Kapahingahan</em>—or rest—in the Lord is not just about stopping work; it’s about finding peace and recovery in the presence of Jesus. When He said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest,” (Matthew 11:28), it was an invitation to experience <em>kapayapaan</em> (peace) that the world cannot give.</p> <p>In my old life, I mistook rest for idleness, a void filled with unease. But Jesus introduced me to <em>kapahingahan</em> that rejuvenates the spirit. In the Philippines, where life can often be a series of struggles, this kind of rest is a balm to the weary soul.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Pagpapahinga at Pagpapanibago</h2> <p><em>Pagpapahinga</em> (resting) and <em>pagpapanibago</em> (renewal) in Jesus are intertwined. When we lay our burdens at His feet, we are not just ceasing from labor; we are allowing Him to renew our strength. The Filipino phrase <em>magpahinga ka muna</em> (you rest for now) takes on a deeper meaning when we understand that in resting, we are entrusting our struggles to God and allowing Him to work in us.</p> <p>As I embraced the rest that Jesus offered, I found myself recovering from years of turmoil. He was not just a refuge from my past; He was the architect of my restoration.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Pahinga sa Pananampalataya</h2> <p>Resting in faith, or <em>pahinga sa pananampalataya</em>, is about letting go and letting God take the lead. It’s a concept I grappled with, as my past was all about control and power. But in the calmness of Sabbath rest, I learned to surrender. <em>Huwag kang mag-alala</em> (don’t you worry), I would remind myself, because faith assures us that even when we rest, God is actively weaving our life’s tapestry.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Muling Pagkakatagpo sa Sarili</h2> <p>In the quiet moments with Jesus, I encountered <em>muling pagkakatagpo sa sarili</em>—a rediscovery of self. The world had labeled me many things: gang member, drug dealer, a lost cause. But in the restorative rest of Christ, I found my true identity as a child of God. I learned that <em>ang tunay na pahinga ay nasa piling ng Panginoon</em> (true rest is found in the presence of the Lord).</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Pagpapalalim ng Ugnayan kay Kristo</h2> <p>Lastly, resting in Jesus deepens our relationship with Him. <em>Pagpapalalim ng ugnayan kay Kristo</em> (deepening one’s relationship with Christ) happens when we are still. In the Philippines, where relationships are the fabric of society, this principle resonates deeply. As I rested in Jesus, I found that my connection with Him grew stronger and more intimate.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Sabbath in Hebrew Theology</h2> <p>The Sabbath (Shabbat in Hebrew) is more than a day off from work; it’s a cornerstone of Jewish faith and identity. It is rooted in the Creation narrative where God rested on the seventh day, sanctifying it as a day of rest for all humanity (Genesis 2:2-3). The observance of Sabbath is a divine commandment, as noted in Exodus 20:8-11, where God instructs the Israelites to remember and keep the Sabbath day holy.</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">A Sign of Covenant</h3> <p>In Hebrew theology, the Sabbath is also a sign of the covenant between God and Israel (Exodus 31:16-17). Observing the Sabbath is an act of obedience and a testament to God’s sovereignty and provision. It offers a rhythm of work and rest, which is integral to human well-being and spiritual health.</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">A Foretaste of the World to Come</h3> <p>The Sabbath is seen as a foretaste of Olam Haba, the world to come, a time of peace and divine presence. It is a weekly opportunity to step out of the ordinary flow of time and experience a sense of eternity, reflecting on the ultimate redemption and restoration promised by God.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Filipino Contextualization of the Sabbath</h2> <p>In the Philippines, where the majority of the population is Christian, the concept of the Sabbath has been adapted and observed within various Christian traditions, taking on unique cultural expressions.</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Linggo ng Pangilin</h3> <p>The Filipino term for Sabbath rest is <em>Linggo ng Pangilin</em>, which translates to “a day of abstaining.” While this can refer to Sunday, the principle encompasses the essence of the Sabbath: a day dedicated to rest and worship, a time to refrain from work and engage in spiritual activities.</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Pagsamba at Pagninilay</h3> <p>On this day, Filipinos engage in <em>pagsamba</em> (worship) and <em>pagninilay</em> (reflection), mirroring the Jewish practice of attending synagogue and Christian services, studying Scripture, and family gatherings. These practices foster a communal and familial sense of belonging, much like the Jewish celebration of Shabbat meals and prayers.</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Pag-alala at Pasasalamat</h3> <p>The Sabbath is also a day of <em>pag-alala</em> (remembrance) and <em>pasasalamat</em> (thanksgiving) for the blessings received throughout the week. It is a time to acknowledge God’s hand in everyday life and express gratitude, paralleling the Jewish tradition of reciting blessings and the Christian practice of the Eucharist.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Theological and Practical Implications</h2> <p>The Hebrew and Filipino perspectives offer a rich tapestry of understanding the Sabbath, providing a spiritual counterbalance to the relentless pace of modern life.</p> <ul><li><strong>Theology of Rest</strong>: Embracing the Sabbath is to embrace God’s design for human rhythms of work and rest. It acknowledges our need for physical, mental, and spiritual rejuvenation.</li> <li><strong>Resistance to Consumerism</strong>: Observing the Sabbath is a form of resistance against a culture of non-stop productivity and consumerism. It is a weekly declaration that our worth is not tied to our output.</li> <li><strong>Community and Family</strong>: The Sabbath fosters community and family ties, encouraging believers to connect with one another and with God in a dedicated and unhurried manner.</li> <li><strong>Holistic Worship</strong>: Whether it is the Jewish Shabbat or the Filipino <em>Linggo ng Pangilin</em>, the Sabbath is a holistic practice of worship that involves the body, mind, and spirit.</li></ul> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Conclusion</h2> <p>The theological richness of the Sabbath, deeply rooted in Hebrew scripture and thoughtfully practiced within Filipino Christian culture, speaks to a universal human rhythm that transcends time and place. It is a weekly invitation to enter into God’s rest, to reflect on His goodness, and to reorient our lives towards the divine. By understanding and incorporating the principles of the Sabbath into our lives, we can find balance, renewal, and a deeper connection with the sacred.</p> <p> </p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2024/03/05/embracing-the-sabbath/">Embracing the Sabbath</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2024/03/05/embracing-the-sabbath/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">11445</post-id> </item> <item> <title>Godly Relationships Series: A Step by Step Journey from Single-hood to Marriage</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/godly-relationships-series-a-step-by-step-journey-from-single-hood-to-marriage/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/godly-relationships-series-a-step-by-step-journey-from-single-hood-to-marriage/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:19:21 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/godly-relationships-series-a-step-by-step-journey-from-single-hood-to-marriage/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>God calls us into healthy, uplifting relationships that reflect His heart of love. Through an in-depth, 10-part teaching series, we will explore what Scripture reveals about cultivating godly connection in … <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/godly-relationships-series-a-step-by-step-journey-from-single-hood-to-marriage/" class="more-link"><span>Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Godly Relationships Series: A Step by Step Journey from Single-hood to Marriage</span></span></a></p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/godly-relationships-series-a-step-by-step-journey-from-single-hood-to-marriage/">Godly Relationships Series: A Step by Step Journey from Single-hood to Marriage</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God calls us into healthy, uplifting relationships that reflect His heart of love. Through an in-depth, 10-part teaching series, we will explore what Scripture reveals about cultivating godly connection in dating, marriage, parenting, friendships, and all relationships. Gain insight into avoiding harmful behaviors and attitudes while nurturing spiritual growth individually and together. Our relationships impact every area of life, so building them upon the strong foundation of God’s wisdom brings strength, peace and purpose. Join us on this transformational journey into grace-filled relationships centered in Christ.</p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">My Journey in Godly Relationships</h1> <p>I struggled in unhealthy relationships and addictions, seeking father figures in the wrong places which led me into gang involvement and worse brokenness. At rock bottom, I cried out to God and found His love as a missionary shared Jesus with me. Since surrendering my life to Christ over 10 years ago, I experienced God’s forgiveness, healing and restoration – delivering me from addiction and transforming how I view women and relationships. Now 37, with a wife and kids after a journey of relational challenges, I share my story to encourage others that no matter your past, God can redeem your relationships and empower you to bless others when you let Him guide your journey.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/my-journey-in-godly-relationships/">Read My Personal Story Here</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Meeting the Love of My Life</h1> <p>After leaving behind my destructive gang lifestyle and turning to God, I still struggled in relationships – jumping between casual romances until conviction gripped me. As I learned to establish godly boundaries around my heart, I sought genuine friendships rather than fleeting flings. My mentor prepared me for when I met Claudia, my future wife. Our shared faith values and accountability allowed a friendship to develop before dating. Coupled with discerning God’s will, limiting physical intimacy, trusting mentor guidance, setting relational priorities, and open communication, our friendship blossomed into a godly marriage. Despite wrestling through commitment fears, separations, and surrendering my own timelines to God along the way, He ultimately led us into becoming one. Now our story testifies that with Jesus at the center, even broken pasts can lead to beautiful redemption in relationships.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/">Read Our Love Story Here</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 1: Why God-centered Relationships?</h1> <p>This session calls us to examine whether our relationships truly reflect Jesus’ selfless love and respect, or if we view people as merely means to fulfill our own needs. It emphasizes that despite our varied personal histories, we can choose to pursue grace-filled connections centered on godly principles rather than the world’s distorted patterns. Research confirms the tangible relational benefits when we embrace biblical truths – increased commitment, satisfaction and parenting success. However, rules aren’t enough; we need God Himself, through His perfect love and wisdom, to transform how we treat one another. As we explore building relationships on this firm foundation of Christlike love, we open ourselves to peace, fulfillment and harmonious connections that shine light into the world.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-1-why-god-centered-relationships/">Session 1: Why God-centered Relationships?</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-why-god-centered-relationships/">Study Guide: Why God-centered Relationships?</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 2: What Kind of Love is God’s Love?</h1> <p>This teaching delineates four Greek types of love – phileo (friendship), storge (family), eros (romantic) and agape (God’s unconditional love) – explaining the distinct meaning of each. It focuses most on agape as encapsulating God’s perfect selfless love embodied fully in Christ’s sacrifice for humanity’s salvation. As Christ-followers, we’re called to live out this same agape love in compassionate action towards others. Our capacity stems from knowing God personally, as He pours out His essence of love into our hearts via the Holy Spirit, thereby transforming us into conduits of divine love that heals brokenness. Despite humanity’s rebellion since the beginning, God’s plan of redemption through Jesus has been unfolding all along to restore us to intimate relationship with Love Himself.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-2-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/">Session 2: What Kind of Love is God’s Love?</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/">Study Guide: What Kind of Love is God’s Love</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 3: The Legacy of Relationships</h1> <p>This teaching traces godly relationships back to the original unity between Father, Son, and Spirit before creation existed. Just as the Trinity models perfect harmony, human connections are meant to reflect this. We see the first marriage of Adam and Eve entrusted with jointly governing Eden yet tragically ushering sin’s relational brokenness through disobedience. Their sons Cain and Seth established opposing legacy bloodlines – one of violent defiance vs the other of faithfulness to God. Throughout Scripture, the descendants of Seth like Noah and Christ Himself demonstrate righteousness, covenant love, and redemption. Ultimately all relationships must align with either Cain’s pride and rebellion leading to destruction, or Seth’s purity and obedience leading to harmony with God, as embodied by the immoral Babylon vs the holy New Jerusalem. Our choices determine whether we contribute to a fractured world or a society flowing with agape love.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-3-the-legacy-of-relationships/">Session 3: The Legacy of Relationships</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-legacy-of-relationships/">Study Guide: The Legacy of Relationships</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 4: Our Personal Godly Foundation</h1> <p>This teaching emphasizes first cultivating a strong personal foundation rooted in our identity and intimacy with Christ before entering relationships, so we don’t rely on others for completeness. It explains how understanding our God-given passions, abilities and callings through self-reflection and seeking God’s guidance helps us steward our lives for maximum Kingdom impact. As we nurture our relationship with God, align our competitive skills, livelihood and passions with His purposes, and focus on blessing others, we can discover our unique role in advancing God’s Kingdom. While the journey has challenges, God shapes us as we trust Him through self-assessment, spiritual mentors, continued growth and perseverant action. Developing this inner foundation empowers us to live with divine purpose and bear lasting fruit.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-4-our-personal-godly-foundation/">Session 4: Our Personal Godly Foundation</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-developing-your-personal-foundation/">Study Guide: Developing Your Personal Foundation</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 5: Growing in a Kingdom Family</h1> <p>This teaching explores growing spiritually within a Kingdom Family, not just an earthly one, centered on nurturing an intimate relationship with God and embracing relational roles like mentors to guide our identity, siblings to sharpen our faith through accountability, disciples to mature our leadership, and unbelievers to expand our compassion. It emphasizes self-assessing these connections to grow into relational wholeness, not relying on a romantic partner to complete us. With Jesus at the center, balanced relationships marked by obedience and spiritual fruit help single individuals cultivate maturity and stability before pursuing marriage. Surrounded by this Kingdom community, we live out God’s design for wholehearted harmony that overflows His love to the world.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-5-growing-in-a-kingdom-family/">Session 5: Growing in a Kingdom Family</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-kingdom-family/">Study Guide: Kingdom Family</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 6: The Big Obstacles</h1> <p>This teaching explores common obstacles in pursuing godly relationships, like compromising values for fleeting romance as Samson did or seeking fulfillment from a partner over God as Solomon exemplified. It emphasizes not abandoning spiritual community for romantic connections and warns against immaturity as seen in the prodigal son. Using the metaphors of traffic lights, it advises assessing relationships wisely for spiritual compatibility, with unwavering commitment like Daniel modeled as green lights and destructive behaviors as red flags. With practical application questions, it challenges individuals to reflect on past mistakes, growth areas, misplaced motives and current connections in light of scriptural truths, urging personal maturation first before pursuing relationships. The ultimate goal is relationships anchored in honoring God, not appeasing self-serving desires.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-6-the-big-obstacles/">Session 6: The Big Obstacles</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-big-obstacles/">Study Guide: The Big Obstacles</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 7: The Pursuit of Marriage</h1> <p>This teaching on pursuing godly marriage emphasizes first establishing maturity and spiritual foundation before awakening romantic love, utilizing wisdom principles like seeking professional alignment, shared values and responsibility for decisions. It explores Adam’s redeemed leadership, uniting spiritual families, communicating clearly on relationship status and direction while acknowledging God’s timing. Mapping out a purposeful relationship roadmap through prayer, counsel and patience allows love to unfold through Spirit-led courtship. Keeping kingdom legacy as the ultimate motivation focuses the pursuit on honoring God by raising children and disciples to spread His fame, not selfish desires.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-7-the-pursuit-of-marriage/">Session 7: The Pursuit of Marriage</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-pursuit-of-marriage/">Study Guide: The Pursuit of Marriage</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 8: The Eternal Significance of Marriage</h1> <p>This teaching on the eternal view of marriage explores how it symbolizes Christ’s relationship with the Church, calling spouses to selfless, sanctifying love and mutual honor as in Scripture, while maintaining perspective that our ultimate marriage is with God in eternity. It emphasizes keeping God as the bedrock in earthly marriages to reflect His Kingdom before exploring the role of spiritual companionship on the journey, like a bridal party, as well as godparents and mentors who impart wisdom for the covenant. Transitioning to a new godly home after leaving parents means maturing as spiritual adults rooted in Scripture to serve the Lord together with passion. This divine romance manifests the Word by applying it in grace and reliance on God.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-8-the-eternal-significance-of-marriage/">Session 8: The Eternal Significance of Marriage</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-eternal-significance-of-marriage/">Study Guide: The Eternal Significance of Marriage</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 9: Children and Legacy</h1> <p>This teaching on children as legacy emphasizes seeing them as blessings to raise as disciples, not burdens, since Scripture charges parents, not institutions, with primary spiritual responsibility. It explores becoming spiritual fathers and mothers within the Kingdom family while empowering the next generation. Our homes should reflect God’s Kingdom as we parent with His values to populate the heavenly New Jerusalem, not just Earth. Faithfully discipling our own children allows Christ’s influence to spread now and for eternity. Though long-term, it is a precious, God-entrusted duty – through our examples and teaching, we steer little ones towards Jesus and expand God’s glory. Despite challenges, nurturing a godly lineage advances His Kingdom which endures forever.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-9-children-and-legacy/">Session 9: Children and Legacy</a></p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-children-and-legacy/">Study Guide: Children and Legacy</a></p> <h1 class="wp-block-heading">Session 10: Embracing God’s Design for Relationships</h1> <p>As this teaching on pursuing godly relationships draws to a close, the fundamental call is to recognize God as the author of all healthy connections and choose to anchor each one in Christ’s sacrificial love, mutual honor, an eternal mindset, and supportive spiritual community. Despite the world’s distortions, God’s design for relationships remains beautiful and life-giving when built upon His Word. This is a lifelong journey that requires intentionality and reliance on God who promises to faithfully guide each step. So with confidence in the Lord’s presence and wisdom, we can surrender our relationships to His transforming purpose, find deep fulfillment in biblical alignment, and let our godly connections shine as bright testaments of His enduring truth and grace to all.</p> <p><a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-10-embracing-gods-design-for-relationships/">Session 10: Embracing God’s Design for Relationships</a></p> <p><a href="Reflection%20Guide:%20Applying%20God's%20Design%20for%20Relationships">Reflection Guide: Applying God’s Design for Relationships</a></p> <p> </p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/godly-relationships-series-a-step-by-step-journey-from-single-hood-to-marriage/">Godly Relationships Series: A Step by Step Journey from Single-hood to Marriage</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/godly-relationships-series-a-step-by-step-journey-from-single-hood-to-marriage/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10978</post-id> </item> <item> <title>My Journey in Godly Relationships</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/my-journey-in-godly-relationships/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/my-journey-in-godly-relationships/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:15:40 +0000</pubDate> <category><![CDATA[Impact Stories]]></category> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/my-journey-in-godly-relationships/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>Drugs added at 12</p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/my-journey-in-godly-relationships/">My Journey in Godly Relationships</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looking back at my past, I remember how the views of the world confused me during my upbringing. Yet, amidst all this confusion, a tiny spark of hope was alive within me. By God’s grace, I began a journey that revealed the truths that would guide me towards healthy relationships.</p> <p>At a very young age, I stumbled into the destructive world of pornography. It clouded my thinking, skewing my understanding of what relationships really meant. People became objects of desire, not unique individuals deserving of love, respect, and dignity. This early exposure started a tough battle with addiction that lasted for years.</p> <p>As I grew up unknowingly I was desperately seeking a father figure, someone who could guide me into becoming a man and a dad. Like many people, I looked for these father figures in TV shows, video games, sports, and music, hoping to find a role model. Little did I know, I was about to meet a mentor in the most unlikely place – a gang. </p> <p>This all started because I didn’t have a strong father figure to model for me what it meant to live like Jesus. Without that godly example, I ended up finding influences through media, entertainment, and unhealthy relationships instead. This gave me a very distorted foundation for what it meant to become a young man, how to treat women, and how to prepare myself to one day be a husband and father. Tragically, I went down the path of addictions, drug dealing, and gang membership.</p> <p>Then I met a gang leader as I started selling crystal meth. Overtime, he became the father figure I was searching for, and I followed his every instruction. He taught me how to engage people in a conversation, something I had never learned before. He showed me how to take care of my appearance, like ironing my shirt – simple life skills that I didn’t know.</p> <p>However, this relationship also pulled me deeper into the gang’s activities and their consequences. Gradually, my grades started to slip, and I stopped attending classes altogether. But the real turning point came when I visited my family in the Philippines, whom I had never met before. What was supposed to be a two-week vacation turned into an intervention that kept me in the Philippines until I could change my path.</p> <p>One night, I hit rock bottom. Despite being high and drunk, I felt a deep emptiness. And for the first time, I cried out beyond the stars, “If You are real, show me that You are real because I’ve forgotten what love is.” Miraculously, I woke up the next morning with a newfound thirst for God.</p> <p>Soon after, I met a missionary who had a similar past to mine. He introduced me to his work in the slums, where he was rebuilding homes for the community. The genuine love I experienced from the children in that community was a revelation for me. I saw in their eyes a reflection of the love of Jesus, and it was this love that drew me in.</p> <p>A week later, I made a decision that changed my life – I gave my life to Jesus Christ. I felt God reassuring me that He would be my Father, that He would teach me how to be the man I was always meant to be.</p> <p>Over ten years later, I am living out the promises God made to me. Today, I am blessed with a beautiful wife and three precious children. However, my journey wasn’t without challenges. Struggles with addiction and my view of women were constant stumbling blocks. But with the guidance of God’s word and a promise to myself of three years of celibacy, I learned how to surrender these idols to God.</p> <p>Over ten years later, I am living out the promises God made to me. Today, I am blessed with a beautiful wife and three precious children. However, my journey wasn’t without challenges. Struggles with addiction and my view of women were constant stumbling blocks. But with the guidance of God’s word and a promise to myself of three years of celibacy, I learned how to surrender these idols to God. </p> <p>Why am I sharing these personal experiences in a book? Because, as a Christian, I believe that life is a journey. And in this journey, we can experience God’s incredible love, forgiveness, and redemption. If my story can help even a single person navigate their journey, it will be worth it.</p> <p>As you journey with me through this book, my prayer is that you will find hope and encouragement. I pray that the lessons I’ve learned along the way will offer you insights into your own journey. Ultimately, I hope this book will inspire you to pursue godly relationships in your life. God’s love can change us all, just as it has changed me.</p> <p>I share all this because my life wasn’t filled with a clear path of where I was supposed to go, nor did it have much guidance. But the Father in heaven showed me where I was meant to be, even after a lifestyle of addictions, gangs, violence and promiscuity. This is an encouragement to everybody who may not have the perfect love life yet, or a full understanding of what the Bible says about relationships. If God was able to help me through my winding journey, then He can help anybody. </p> <p>Now at 37 years old (as of 2023), I am blessed with three beautiful kids and a lovely wife. We even spent years doing missions in the Philippines as a family. God raised me up not only as a single man, but also as a father and leader in missions. This is an encouragement that if God could empower me, He definitely has a heart to empower you or anybody else seeking His truth.</p> <p>As you journey with me through this book, my prayer is that you will find hope and encouragement. I pray that the lessons I’ve learned along the way will offer you insights into your own journey. Ultimately, I hope this book will inspire you to pursue godly relationships in your life. God’s love can change us all, just as it has changed me.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/my-journey-in-godly-relationships/">My Journey in Godly Relationships</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/my-journey-in-godly-relationships/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10976</post-id> </item> <item> <title>Meeting the Love of My Life</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:14:41 +0000</pubDate> <category><![CDATA[Impact Stories]]></category> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>Setting Boundaries Around My Heart and God My upbringing in a gang didn’t provide structure or discipline in relationships. Everything was chaotic. There were no boundaries or standards of morality. … <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/" class="more-link"><span>Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Meeting the Love of My Life</span></span></a></p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/">Meeting the Love of My Life</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Setting Boundaries Around My Heart and God</h2> <p>My upbringing in a gang didn’t provide structure or discipline in relationships. Everything was chaotic. There were no boundaries or standards of morality. I had been immersed in that lifestyle for so long that I didn’t know any different. Lust, partying, and “hooking up” were normal to me. That’s just how things were.</p> <p>When I left the gang and turned to God, so much changed in my life. I broke free from drugs, violence, and all sorts of sinful habits. But one thing still had a grip on me – my approach to relationships. </p> <p>I had spent years jumping from one romance to another, leaving a trail of broken hearts. The girls never seemed to last long. I viewed relationships as something casual, just for fun and pleasure. I didn’t realize how my choices were hurting these women, not to mention myself. </p> <p>After getting saved, I expected everything to become instantly holy. But inner transformation doesn’t happen overnight. While God had changed my heart, my mind still needed renewal in many areas. </p> <p>Act church, my pastor preached a message that jolted me. He talked about purity, loyalty, and honoring God with our bodies. Conviction gripped my heart. I knew I had to change, no matter how difficult it would be.</p> <p>I asked my mentor if we could meet to discuss relationships. I laid out all my toxic patterns – the habitual lust, hookups, cheating, and finally dumping the girl once I got bored. </p> <p>“What’s wrong with me?” I asked. “Why do I keep repeating this cycle?”</p> <p>He gently explained the concept of boundaries. </p> <p>“You’ve lived so long without any boundaries when it comes to women. You let your desires control you instead of controlling your desires. It’s time to establish some boundaries – to protect the women in your life and yourself.”</p> <p>This began my journey of learning to set healthy boundaries. It required transforming my mindset and habits when it came to relationships. </p> <p>First, I had to learn to honor women as God’s precious creation. In the past, I viewed them as objects to fulfill my selfish desires. Now I saw them through God’s eyes – as his beloved daughters that deserved dignity and respect. </p> <p>Secondly, I had to guard my eyes and heart. Instead of watching anything provocative, I bounced my eyes and focused on what was pure. I asked God to renew my mind and cleanse my heart from lust.</p> <p>Thirdly, I committed to flee temptation. I stopped putting myself in risky situations where my self-control could slip. This meant avoiding late night visits with girls. Ultimately, I just stopped my distraction of dating all-in-all. </p> <p>Lastly, I surrounded myself with accountability. I confessed my struggles to my mentor and close friends at church. They kept me in check and offered godly wisdom whenever I faced challenges. </p> <p>This journey of learning to establish boundaries transformed how I approached relationships. It aligned my life with the standards of morality and purity in God’s Word. This commitment to honor God carried over into discerning when and who to date.</p> <p>Instead of rushing into any romantic connection, I sought to build meaningful friendships first. My mentor told me, “Don’t date just to date. Seek genuine friendships, and if something more unfolds, approach it cautiously and prayfully.”</p> <p>This mindset shift paved the way for me to meet my wife years later. We built a spiritual friendship, staying accountable to our church community. Our shared commitment to purity allowed our emotional and spiritual connection to deepen over time. </p> <p>Looking back, learning to set boundaries marked a pivotal turning point in my faith journey. It transformed me from a reckless womanizer to a man of God who could eventually become a faithful husband. This foundation of honor, self-control and wisdom influences all areas of my life even today.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Dating Won’t Solve Loneliness</h2> <p>For most of my youth, a nagging sense of loneliness haunted me. I tried to numb it with partying and relationships. But nothing could fill the emptiness inside. </p> <p>This unshakeable loneliness drove me to pursue one girlfriend after another. I thought each new romance could rescue me from isolation and depression. For a brief time, the thrill of the chase and early affection seemed to help. But the hollowness always returned.</p> <p>When one relationship ended, I desperately sought another – like a thirsty man gulping one glass of water after another. But the deeper thirst remained. </p> <p>After coming to Christ, I expected the loneliness to instantly vanish. I assumed being a Christian meant perpetual joy and peace. But inner transformation requires time and discipline. </p> <p>While my early zeal for Jesus brought incredible joy, I still battled loneliness. At times, it felt even more intense. The Lord was pruning away dependencies on worldly pleasures and cheap thrills. But the process proved painful.</p> <p>I often cried out to God, “Why do I still feel so lonely if you’re with me? When will this go away?”</p> <p>One day during prayer, the Holy Spirit graciously revealed areas I needed to grow in. He showed me how to channel the crushing loneliness into a deeper seeking of Him. </p> <p>First, He highlighted misplaced motives in relationships. I still viewed girlfriends as the solution to loneliness instead of God alone. Part of my intent in dating was to fill inner emptiness.</p> <p>The Spirit tenderly reminded me that only Jesus can satisfy the soul’s deepest longings. He encouraged me to pour out my heart’s thirst fully to Christ, holding nothing back.</p> <p>Secondly, He revealed the importance of godly friendships. I had isolated myself, not investing in genuine connections at church.</p> <p>God designed us for community, to encourage and strengthen each other. Instead of relying solely on romantic relationships, I needed to nurture spiritual friendships.</p> <p>Lastly, the Holy Spirit showed me overlooked areas of passion and calling. In my loneliness, I had neglected creativity and hobbies that once brought me joy. </p> <p>He revived forgotten dreams in me – like mentoring youth and producing music. I felt stirred to pursue my passions and experience fulfillment in embarking on kingdom purposes. </p> <p>As I embraced this wisdom, my motivation for relationships changed. Instead of chasing romance to medicate loneliness, I found satisfaction in seeking Jesus. My eyes opened to friendships and activities that aligned with my renewed values.</p> <p>This season trained me to lean into godly community, rather than withdrawals driven by loneliness. My confidence grew in Christ’s companionship and presence.</p> <figure class="wp-block-image size-large"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" width="792" height="650" data-attachment-id="10998" data-permalink="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?fit=2048%2C1682&ssl=1" data-orig-size="2048,1682" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"1"}" data-image-title="b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?fit=300%2C246&ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?fit=792%2C650&ssl=1" src="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?resize=792%2C650&ssl=1" class="wp-image-10998" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C841&ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?resize=300%2C246&ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?resize=768%2C631&ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?resize=1536%2C1262&ssl=1 1536w, https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?resize=1200%2C986&ssl=1 1200w, https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/b383103c-f892-4c5a-8acd-ea67fb04b842-1.jpg?w=2048&ssl=1 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 792px) 100vw, 792px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></figure> <p>By the time I met Claudia, my heart had been prepared. Our friendship unfolded naturally, without pressure to fill voids from either side. We encouraged each other’s passions and callings as individuals with purpose. </p> <p>Looking back, I can testify that only Jesus permanently fills the soul’s loneliness. Seeking wholeness in relationships, substances or accomplishments always disappoints. But running to the Well that never runs dry brings lasting joy.</p> <p>The Lord in His grace turned my loneliness into a blessing – drawing me into deeper encounter with Him. His faithful shepherding prepared me for the companionship I would later find in marriage.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Getting Into a Relationship</h2> <p>Once I embraced the concept of boundaries, it changed how I approached dating and relationships. I saw the wisdom in building spiritual friendships first, rather than rushing into romance. My mentor’s advice to “not date just to date” stuck with me. </p> <p>When I first met Claudia, I was drawn to her godly character and her heart for Jesus. She had a vibrancy and joy that I admired. We became friends while serving at church and gradually got to know each other better. </p> <p>During this season, I often thanked God for bringing Claudia into my life. I valued her friendship greatly. At the same time, I sensed myself developing feelings for her. It scared me at first – I didn’t want to relapse into my old ways. </p> <p>I decided to keep our friendship completely out in the open. We only hung out in groups or public places. I wanted accountability and wisdom from others, so nothing was hidden. </p> <p>One day, I gathered the courage to tell Claudia how I felt. We agreed to pray and seek the Lord, and wait for clear direction before pursing a romantic relationship. </p> <p>We also told our spiritual leaders at church that we liked each other. I met with my mentor, while Claudia met with her ministry leader. I laid everything out transparently. </p> <p>“I know my past and I don’t want to mess things up again. Please help me stay on the right path.”<br /></p> <p>My mentor affirmed my growth over the years. He said he trusted me to make wise decisions if God green-lighted a relationship with Claudia. But he also urged me not to rush ahead of God’s timing.</p> <p>After a time of prayer and fasting, Claudia felt God’s peace to begin a courtship focused on spiritual growth and purity. Her leader also gave a green light, after counseling her to take it slow.</p> <p>With this Godly guidance in place, we took the first steps into an intentional dating relationship. Our main priority was keeping Jesus at the center. </p> <p>We committed to not letting the relationship become a distraction from following God’s call on our lives. I was involved in inner city outreach, while Claudia led a ministry team. These pursuits had to take precedence over our romantic feelings.</p> <p>Another boundary we set was limiting physical contact. God had changed both our hearts and renewed our minds when it came to purity. We wanted to honor God and each other in this area.</p> <p>This meant quick hugs at the end of group dates. I also avoided visiting her apartment alone. We kept things out in public to stay accountable. </p> <p>In the beginning, it felt awkward to have these self-imposed restrictions. But they ended up strengthening our emotional and spiritual bond. The choice to delay physical intimacy deepened our foundation.</p> <p>We also had candid conversations about past relational baggage and pitfalls to avoid. I opened up about my history of flings and heartbreak. </p> <p>“I know I’m not perfect. But I want to walk in freedom with you. Please help keep me accountable.”</p> <p>Claudia in turn shared her own vulnerabilities. We carried each other’s burdens and extended grace. Our unity grew in the process.</p> <p>Throughout the dating journey, we constantly sought wisdom from our mentors, friends and family. I met with my pastor regularly to share updates and ask for advice. </p> <p>Claudia also checked in with a trusted group of girlfriends. They prayed for us and offered guidance as we navigated each stage as a couple.</p> <p>Keeping everything out in the light prevented us from slipping into deception. God surrounded us with a community that spoke truth, extended grace, and prayed for our relationship. </p> <p>Looking back, I’m grateful for the boundaries God taught us to establish. More than just staying pure, they allowed God to strengthen our foundation. </p> <p>What began as a friendship, with openness and accountability, blossomed into an unshakeable love rooted in Jesus. Those boundaries guided us every step of the way.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Saying Yes or No</h2> <p>As my relationship with Claudia grew, there were moments of hesitation and uncertainty along the way. I cared deeply for her, yet the thought of commitment also triggered my fears. </p> <p>In the early days of dating, we decided to keep our options open. We wanted to let the relationship unfold slowly, without pressure or hasty decisions. This allowed us to pray and seek the Lord, while enjoying getting to know each other.</p> <p>However, as time passed, we both started to desire more clarity. The ambiguity of “just dating” without defined expectations grew frustrating. We loved each other, but where was this heading?</p> <p>I vividly remember a prayer time with God: </p> <p>“Is this a casual thing for you, or are you willing to commit to something real?” </p> <p>I began wrestling with God in prayer daily about this decision. At times, I opened my Bible randomly, asking for direction. One verse jumped out at me:</p> <p>“But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ Anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” (Matthew 5:37)</p> <p>This startled me. I realized God was urging me towards a firm choice – either commit wholeheartedly to marrying Claudia, or let her go. No more wavering in between.</p> <p>As I meditated on this, God began downloading a vision into my spirit. I saw Claudia and I serving Him hand-in-hand, raising children in the fear of the Lord, impacting many through our shared calling. </p> <p>This glimpse into our potential future as a married couple ignited faith in me. I knew God had ordained this relationship for a greater purpose. </p> <p>The next time I saw Claudia, I shared everything in my heart – the wrestling, the vision from God, and ultimately the confirmation that she was God’s chosen wife for me. </p> <p>“I don’t want to let fear hold me back anymore. With God as my strength, I want to commit to walking down this road with you. Not just as a girlfriend, but my wife and co-laborer in God’s harvest.”</p> <p>I’ll never forget the expression of joy on Claudia’s face. “It’s a yes!” she exclaimed. We sealed this decision with prayer, dedicating our future to the Lord.</p> <p>Our courtship soon transitioned into engagement and then marriage. Of course, new challenges emerged once the initial euphoria ended. But the firm foundation we laid gave us strength and resilience.</p> <p>Looking back, I’m grateful that Claudia pressed me to make a firm choice during our dating season. Rather than coasting along half-heartedly, I wrestled through my hesitation and embraced God’s call to pursue marriage. </p> <p>My “Yes, I will commit” decision changed the trajectory of my life forever. Obedience to God’s timing always brings blessing. The fruits of that choice – a God-centered marriage and family – are gifts I treasure every single day. </p> <p>At times, saying “No” is also needed to stay aligned with God’s will. After Claudia and I married, we faced a major crisis that led to separation. Despite hopes for reconciliation, God told me clearly to let the marriage go and trust Him fully. </p> <p>With immense sorrow, I submitted and said “No” to my desperate prayers for restoration. As painful as it was, God used that surrender to bring deeper healing for both of us. </p> <p>God desires a heart that remains soft and pliable. Saying “Yes” or “No” to relationships, by the Spirit’s guidance, keeps us anchored in His perfect will.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Waiting Well</h2> <p>After discerning God’s green light for a relationship with Claudia, I had to learn the art of waiting well. Just because we knew we would marry someday didn’t mean we could fast forward immediately into marriage.</p> <p>We took time to pray and seek wisdom from our spiritual leaders about proper timing. They advised us to wait until finishing Bible college and getting clarity about where God was calling us. We respected their counsel, despite our impatience. </p> <p>This began a journey of surrendering our desires for God’s timing. Waiting is difficult when emotions are running high! But we chose to trust God’s perfect plan. </p> <p>During this season of waiting, we set clear boundaries to avoid temptation. Physical intimacy was off the table, except for quick goodbye hugs. We also limited time alone. Group settings and public places became our default. </p> <p>At first, it felt awkward to restrain natural desires for emotional and physical closeness. But these self-imposed limitations strengthened our commitment to purity. </p> <p>We focused energy into supportive friendships instead. I surrounded myself with godly brothers at church that kept me accountable. Claudia often invited girlfriends along on dates to keep things out in the open.</p> <p>Rather than obsessing over the future, we learned to be content living day by day. Enjoying simple activities like praying together, studying God’s Word, and serving others became our focus.</p> <p>The waiting period taught me patience and self-control. But God also rewarded our trust in His timing.</p> <p>The day I finally proposed, Claudia and I both knew joyfully that it aligned with God’s timing. We had walked through this season with purity and integrity. </p> <p>Waiting refined our readiness for marriage. The obedience in restraint prepared our hearts to receive God’s rewards. </p> <p>Years later, when we endured a painful separation, I had to wait again. This time for reconciliation and restoration of our marriage. </p> <p>Despite deep longing to reunite our family, God called me to repentance. I had to submit my timeline and wait for His restoration.</p> <p>This process took years rather than months. But God walked with me through the valley of surrender. His faithful comfort buoyed me during the darkest nights of weeping.</p> <p>Looking back, I thank God for both waiting seasons. Although incredibly difficult, they demonstrated His faithfulness and refined my character. </p> <p>I learned that leaping ahead of God’s timing always leads to more pain. But choosing the narrow path of obedience positions us for blessing when His appointed time arrives.<br /></p> <p>Waiting well brings rewards. Had I rushed into marriage before fully maturing, the outcome could have been disastrous. But surrendering my impatience to the Lord’s wisdom led to unspeakable joy. </p> <p>God’s perfect timing unfolded step by step. Today I’m able to say our marriage was worth waiting for. The fruits of patience are incredibly sweet.</p> <p>If you find yourself in a period of waiting related to relationships, take heart. Stand firm in faith, walk in purity, and God will bring His plans to pass in due time. His timing is always purposeful – and always perfect.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Discerning God’s Will</h2> <p>Navigating romantic relationships requires wisdom and discernment. Emotions can cloud our judgement and lead us astray. The only safe guide is actively seeking and submitting to God’s will.</p> <p>In my journey with Claudia, we continually sought the Lord together for His guidance. We did not rely solely on our own feelings, but made decisions only after much prayer.</p> <p>An important step was seeking counsel and perspective from our spiritual leaders. I met often with my pastor to openly discuss the relationship. His wisdom and objectivity helped me stay grounded.</p> <p>Claudia also had a small group of godly girlfriends who knew her well. They prayed with her about every milestone in our courtship. Their insights offered outside discernment.</p> <p>We waited patiently for confirmation and unity. During a time of uncertainty early on, Claudia felt led to fast and pray for 7 days to hear God clearly. This demonstrated her commitment to seeking the Lord’s will, not her own. </p> <p>As we individually spent time in prayer and fasting, God gave us both assurance and peace about moving forward. Our mentors confirmed this sense of the Holy Spirit’s leading.</p> <p>We also looked for the fruits of the Spirit – love, joy, peace – as validating signs. Were we growing closer to Jesus as a couple? Did our relationship inspire others and point them to Christ? This fruit bore witness to God’s blessing.</p> <p>However, there were moments when I moved ahead of God’s timing due to my own impatience. During a painful relational rupture, I made desperate attempts to reconcile without waiting for the Lord’s go-ahead. </p> <p>Finally, the Holy Spirit convicted me that I needed to surrender the situation fully to Him. I had been leaning on my own understanding instead of acknowledging Him.</p> <p>This reminded me how vital it is to wait for God’s direction instead of running ahead. He may require a season of refinement before ushering in breakthrough.</p> <p>As I submitted and relinquished my ways to the Lord, peace and hope began to return. God healed my heart as I waited on Him.</p> <p>Discerning God’s will requires humility and teachability. We must come before Him ready to surrender our agendas. Often, His timing and methods are different from what we envision.</p> <p>But He promises that if we commit our relationships fully to Him, placing them on the altar of obedience, He will direct our paths. We simply need to listen and obey.</p> <p>As we wait on the Lord, study His Word, seek wise counsel, and pay attention to the Spirit’s leading and fruit, we will begin to recognize His voice. Our emotional impulses lose influence as His will becomes clear.</p> <p>This guidance is available at every crossroads and with every major decision. God longs to be intimately involved in our relationship journey. As we choose to actively walk in His ways, our relationships will bear good fruit and flourish.</p> <p>Discerning God’s will may seem challenging, but He promises to make darkness light before us as we seek Him. If we commit to pursuing His heart above all else, He will illuminate our path with His truth, step by step.</p> <figure class="wp-block-image size-large"><img decoding="async" width="792" height="528" data-attachment-id="10993" data-permalink="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1.jpg?fit=960%2C640&ssl=1" data-orig-size="960,640" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"1"}" data-image-title="10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1.jpg?fit=300%2C200&ssl=1" data-large-file="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1.jpg?fit=792%2C528&ssl=1" src="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1.jpg?resize=792%2C528&ssl=1" alt="" class="wp-image-10993" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1.jpg?w=960&ssl=1 960w, https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1.jpg?resize=300%2C200&ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/themanays.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/10553459_10152581206780982_2457787376214750701_n-1.jpg?resize=768%2C512&ssl=1 768w" sizes="(max-width: 792px) 100vw, 792px" data-recalc-dims="1" /></figure> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Becoming One</h2> <p>When Claudia and I got married, we faced an immense learning curve. The euphoria of being newlyweds soon collided with the realities of living together day in and day out. </p> <p>While dating, we could put our best foot forward during limited time together. But waking up next to someone every morning and sharing daily life revealed our flaws and quirks.</p> <p>Adjusting to married life proved challenging as we learned to communicate in healthier ways. Misunderstandings easily spiraled into hurt feelings and conflicts. Expectations we had for each other led to friction and resentment.</p> <p>Through painful trial and error, we realized we couldn’t rely on our own wisdom. We needed help and resources to strengthen our marriage.</p> <p>One simple but essential tool was discovering each other’s “love languages.” I learned Claudia felt most loved through small acts of service and quality time focused on her. She picked up on my need for words of affirmation to feel secure in our relationship.</p> <p>Knowing these vulnerabilities transformed how we related. Instead of guessing what the other person needed, we could intentionally channel love in tailored ways. It became natural to do her dishes after dinner or schedule a weekly date night.</p> <p>We also had to learn positive communication skills. In stressful moments, I tend to become explosive while Claudia become silent and cold. This combination often led to standoffs.</p> <p>We found a healthy medium by praying together first to invite God’s presence into the conversation. Taking time to cool down prevented heated reactions. We learned to share feelings vulnerably and really listen.</p> <p>Additionally, we agreed not to make major decisions in highly emotional states. Otherwise, hasty words could inflict damage. When tensions arose, we tabled the issue for revisiting after calming down.</p> <p>Letting go of unrealistic expectations was another essential lesson. I assumed marriage would be perpetual happiness, which led to discouragement. Claudia expected a perfect soulmate, until realizing I’m a work in progress like her.</p> <p>We had to extend grace to each other’s flaws and imperfections. Staying anchored in God’s love helped us have mercy during failures. We learned to apologize quickly and forgive freely. </p> <p>Most importantly, we had to posture our hearts in humility. Marriage requires dying to selfishness as we serve each other. Becoming one means laying down our lives out of reverence for Christ.</p> <p>When we drifted into pursuing separate interests, intimacy suffered. We realigned by asking, “What draws us together versus separates?” Encouraging each other’s passions restored unity.</p> <p>Throughout our ongoing journey of oneness, we’ve found marriage is designed to refine and sanctify. Spouses reveal your deepest flaws and strengths. But choosing love despite imperfections produces beauty. </p> <p>The trials that once threatened to tear us apart became building blocks of a resilient lifelong bond, as we allowed God into the cracks of our relationship. </p> <p>We still have much room to grow. But we’ve discovered some timeless truths for cultivating marital unity:</p> <ul><li>Know and meet each other’s emotional needs</li> <li>Communicate with vulnerability and listen actively </li> <li>Extend abundant grace and forgiveness</li> <li>Lay down selfishness in order to love and serve</li> <li>Keep Jesus at the center as the ultimate bond of love<br /></li></ul> <p>The passion of romance may fade, but these actions can nourish a marriage for a lifetime. Each couple has valleys to walk and mountains to climb. But choosing to become one day by day sustains the journey of togetherness.</p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/">Meeting the Love of My Life</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/meeting-the-love-of-my-life/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10974</post-id> </item> <item> <title>Session 1: Why God-centered Relationships?</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-1-why-god-centered-relationships/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-1-why-god-centered-relationships/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:08:39 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-1-why-god-centered-relationships/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>Things to do add transcript from Paula Add transcript from YWAM CM (the big fight) AI edit add your own flow Design the storyline Make sure the key stories are in there Cain - lamech - nimrod - nephilim - philistines (jezebel) - Judas Seth - methuselah - Noah - Abraham - Elijah - Jesus</p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-1-why-god-centered-relationships/">Session 1: Why God-centered Relationships?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In our journey of understanding godly relationships, it’s vital that we pause and look inward. Reflect on your own relationships. Think about your beliefs, values, actions, and how they align with the teachings of Jesus. It’s easy to carry old habits and thoughts without questioning their origin or their truth. </p> <p>Each one of us carries a unique past, filled with different experiences. Some may have been joyful, while others may have caused hurt and left deep scars. However, it’s important to remember that these experiences do not define our worth. We have the power to choose how we shape our future relationships.</p> <p>Do your current relationships reflect the love, respect, and selflessness that Jesus demonstrated? Or do they mirror the world’s superficial and self-centered approach? Do you cherish people for who they are, or are you using them to meet your needs? It’s time to introspect and question if what we do and say truly lines up with the word and heart of Jesus.</p> <p>In the light of God’s word, let’s take this opportunity to reassess our beliefs and actions. God’s heart for us is to have relationships that are fulfilling, loving, and centered on Him. As we continue exploring the first relationships in the Bible, let it not be just a history lesson, but a guide to help us navigate our own relationships. </p> <p>Remember, it’s never too late to make changes. No matter where you are in your journey, God’s grace is sufficient. Let His love guide you to healthier, more wholesome relationships that honor Him and bless others.</p> <p>Understanding the biblical perspective on relationships can make a world of difference in our lives. This wisdom provides guidance for fostering relationships that reflect God’s love and respect, while also warning us about the consequences of ungodly behaviors like substance abuse.</p> <p>Statistics clearly show the devastating effects substance abuse can have on relationships and individuals. For instance, the National Survey on Drug Use and Health reported that nearly 20 million Americans struggled with substance abuse in 2017. This doesn’t just harm the individual; it impacts their relationships, leading to broken trust, emotional pain, and often the dissolution of families.</p> <p>Vices aren’t a solitary issue; it often coexists with financial problems, job loss, and health complications. These challenges put additional stress on relationships, pushing them to the breaking point. </p> <p>Similarly, vices may seem like a temporary solution for filling voids in our relationships. But they’re just that – temporary. They don’t address the root of our needs and can even amplify our problems over time.</p> <p>Only God and His Word can truly fulfill our needs and guide us in cultivating healthy, thriving relationships. As we dive deeper into understanding what the Bible says about relationships, we can find the answers to our deepest needs, allowing us to make choices that are not just right for the moment, but beneficial for our spiritual growth and future.</p> <p>Embracing biblical teachings on relationships carries tangible benefits that have been substantiated by several Christian research organizations. For instance, the Barna Group, a prominent Christian research firm, found in a survey that practicing Christians who regularly attend church report higher levels of marital satisfaction and commitment compared to the general population.</p> <p>Furthermore, according to a report by Focus on the Family, couples who pray together exhibit higher levels of marital satisfaction and trust, emphasizing the power of shared spiritual practices in fortifying relationships. </p> <p>When it comes to parenting, Christian families that integrate godly principles into their home life often report positive outcomes. Research conducted by Lifeway, a Christian resources company, suggests that children who are raised in homes where both parents have a strong faith are more likely to retain their faith into adulthood.</p> <p>These statistics underscore the positive impact of aligning our relationships with biblical teachings. However, it’s not just about following a set of rules—it’s about allowing God’s love and wisdom to guide our actions, our words, and our attitudes toward one another. As we continue our exploration of biblical relationships, let’s seek to cultivate these godly attributes in our own lives. The resulting peace, fulfillment, and harmony can be a testament to God’s enduring truth and love.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Need for God’s Love</h2> <p>Having considered the importance of God’s principles and the impact of practicing these in our relationships, it’s evident that we need to go deeper. Our primary focus should be on one foundational principle—God’s love. This love, divine and sacrificial, is what fuels all other godly virtues and principles.</p> <p>This kind of love is not merely about receiving but also about giving. It’s about reflecting the love God has shown us in how we interact with and treat others. As we transition into our next discussion, we will explore further why this agape love is crucial, how it impacts our lives and relationships, and how we can more effectively express this love to others.</p> <p>With this foundational understanding, we’ll find ourselves equipped to navigate life’s challenges with wisdom, grace, and above all, love. The love that not only transforms us but also those around us, thus truly embodying the spirit of God’s kingdom.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-1-why-god-centered-relationships/">Session 1: Why God-centered Relationships?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-1-why-god-centered-relationships/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10972</post-id> </item> <item> <title>Study Guide: Why God-centered Relationships?</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-why-god-centered-relationships/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-why-god-centered-relationships/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:08:05 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-why-god-centered-relationships/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>Exploring Godly Relationships Use the following prompts to prayerfully evaluate your current or past relationships in light of biblical principles: Examine your motivations Why do you desire a relationship? Are … <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-why-god-centered-relationships/" class="more-link"><span>Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Study Guide: Why God-centered Relationships?</span></span></a></p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-why-god-centered-relationships/">Study Guide: Why God-centered Relationships?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Exploring Godly Relationships</h2> <p>Use the following prompts to prayerfully evaluate your current or past relationships in light of biblical principles:</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Examine your motivations</h3> <ul> <li>Why do you desire a relationship? Are you seeking to fill inner voids like loneliness or insecurity rather than finding wholeness in Christ?</li> <li>Do you view relationships as casual and temporary or as a sacred commitment before God? <br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Assess relational patterns</h3> <ul> <li>Do you have a history of rushed physical intimacy without emotional connection? </li> <li>Have you established clear physical, emotional and spiritual boundaries?</li> <li>Are you transparent about the relationship with spiritual leaders and friends to invite accountability and wisdom?<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Evaluate spiritual fruits</h3> <ul> <li>Does the relationship distract or enhance your connection with God? </li> <li>Are you pursuing spiritual activities like Bible study, prayer and church community together?</li> <li>Does the relationship inspire you to love and good deeds or drain your spiritual passion?<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Discern godly compatibility </h3> <ul> <li>Do you share similar values about purity, life vision and faith practices like prayer and bible reading? </li> <li>Are you equally yoked in spiritual maturity and practices? </li> <li>Do they spur you towards holiness or stumble your walk with God?<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Assess relational skills</h3> <ul> <li>Are you able to communicate openly, manage conflict calmly and extend forgiveness to each other? </li> <li>Do you know each other’s emotional needs and intentionally meet them with love and care?</li> <li>Do you make quality time for each other without distractions and also nurture other friendships? <br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Invite God’s presence</h3> <ul> <li>Do you actively seek God’s will together through prayer and study of Scripture? </li> <li>Do you wait patiently on God’s timing without rushing important decisions about commitment? </li> <li>Have you surrounded the relationship with spiritual mentors and accountability partners that can offer wisdom and counsel?<br></li></ul> <p>I encourage you to journal about these soul-searching questions. Where is God calling you to establish healthier patterns and godlier practices in relationships? Open your heart to receive His conviction, healing, wisdom and empowerment. With God all things are possible!</p> <p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-why-god-centered-relationships/">Study Guide: Why God-centered Relationships?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-why-god-centered-relationships/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10971</post-id> </item> <item> <title>Session 2: What Kind of Love is God’s Love?</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-2-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-2-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:06:36 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-2-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>God’s love refers to the love that comes from God, encompassing His perfect and unconditional love for humanity. It is a love that surpasses human understanding and exceeds any other … <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-2-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/" class="more-link"><span>Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Session 2: What Kind of Love is God’s Love?</span></span></a></p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-2-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/">Session 2: What Kind of Love is God’s Love?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God’s love refers to the love that comes from God, encompassing His perfect and unconditional love for humanity. It is a love that surpasses human understanding and exceeds any other form of love. God’s love is often described using the Greek word “Agape,” which represents God’s selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional love.</p> <p>Agape love, is distinct from other types of love found in Greek culture. Understanding the different types of love can help us grasp the unique nature of God’s love:</p> <ol> <li><strong>Phileo:</strong> This type of love is often described as brotherly love or friendship. It involves a deep affection, care, and camaraderie between individuals. It is the love that exists between close friends or family members.<br></li> <li><strong>Storgē:</strong> Storgē is a type of love associated with natural affection, such as the love between parents and children or within families. It is characterized by a sense of familiarity, comfort, and attachment.<br></li> <li><strong>Eros:</strong> Eros represents romantic or passionate love, often associated with desire and physical attraction. It is the type of love experienced in a romantic relationship or marriage.<br></li> <li><strong>Agapē:</strong> Agape, the divine love of God, is a selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional love that seeks the highest good of others without expecting anything in return. It goes beyond feelings or emotions and is a choice to love and serve others wholeheartedly.<br></li></ol> <p>When Jesus commands us to love one another, He uses the term Agape, emphasizing the selfless and sacrificial nature of God’s love that we are called to embody.</p> <p>Throughout the Bible, we witness God’s Agape demonstrated in His actions and teachings. From sending His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for our sins, to extending forgiveness, grace, and mercy, God’s love is all-encompassing and knows no bounds.</p> <p><strong>Here is a rundown of the usage of Greek words for love in the New Testament:</strong></p> <p><strong>1. Phileo (φιλέω):</strong> This term is used roughly 25 times in the New Testament, often expressing affectionate love between friends or family members. It is notably found in passages such as John 11:3, where it denotes the love between Jesus and Lazarus.</p> <p><strong>2. Storge (στοργή):</strong> This term is not specifically used in the New Testament.</p> <p><strong>3. Eros (ἔρως):</strong> This term, which represents romantic or passionate love, is not mentioned in the New Testament.</p> <p><strong>4. Agape (ἀγάπη):</strong> With 116 occurrences in the New Testament, “agape” is the most common Greek term for love. “Agape” is the dominant term conveying the concept of love in the New Testament.</p> <p>Agape love is of particular importance as it represents the character of God’s love, thereby being crucial for us to embody in our actions. We, as His children and creation, are called to demonstrate this love, not merely out of obligation, but out of our very identity.</p> <p><strong>In historical texts outside the New Testament, the use of these Greek terms varies:</strong></p> <p><strong>1. Phileo (φιλέω):</strong> “Phileo” is relatively more common than “eros” and “storge” in historical texts, usually describing friendship or affectionate love. Ancient Greek philosophers and playwrights frequently examined the various aspects of phileo love.</p> <p><strong>2. Eros (ἔρως):</strong> “Eros” is primarily associated with passionate or romantic love. Despite its prominence in ancient Greek mythology, poetry, and philosophy.</p> <p><strong>3. Storge (στοργή):</strong> “Storge” represents familial or natural affection, denoting the love between family members. </p> <p><strong>4. Agape (ἀγάπη) Love:</strong> Originating from Christian theology, “agape love” primarily describes the selfless and unconditional love of God in religious texts like the Bible. Outside of these texts, it may not commonly appear in historical or secular writings.</p> <p>While other forms of love are prevalent in historical texts, agape love, stemming solely from God, the Bible, and Jesus, sets us apart. The world will recognize us by how we love, by how we agape.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">What does Phileo Love Mean?</h2> <p>Phileo love refers to the love of friendship and companionship. It is a type of love characterized by affection, camaraderie, and shared interests or activities. Phileo love is often associated with the deep bond and connection between close friends.</p> <p>In Greek culture, Phileo love was highly valued and considered an essential aspect of human relationships. It represents a mutual affection and loyalty that develops between individuals who share common interests, passions, or experiences.</p> <p>The word “phileo” comes from the Greek word “phílos,” which means “friend” or “beloved.” It signifies a warm, affectionate, and deep connection between friends, based on a sense of trust, mutual respect, and enjoyment of each other’s company.</p> <p>Examples of Phileo love can be seen in lifelong friendships, where individuals share a deep emotional connection, trust, and support for one another. It involves spending time together, engaging in meaningful conversations, and being there for each other during both joyful and challenging times.</p> <p>In the Bible, Phileo love is mentioned in various contexts, highlighting the importance of friendship and companionship:</p> <ol> <li><strong>John 11:3 (NIV):</strong> “So the sisters sent word to Jesus, ‘Lord, the one you love is sick.'” Here, Mary and Martha, who were close friends of Jesus, used the term “phileo” to describe their deep affection for Him.<br></li> <li><strong>John 20:2 (NIV):</strong> “So she came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved, and said, ‘They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we don’t know where they have put him!'” This verse refers to the disciple whom Jesus had a close friendship with, using the term “phileo” to express the bond between them.<br></li></ol> <p>Phileo love encompasses the joy, trust, and shared experiences that come from deep friendships. It is an essential aspect of human relationships and adds richness and support to our lives.</p> <p>In summary, Phileo love refers to the love of friendship and companionship. It is characterized by deep affection, loyalty, shared interests, and a strong bond between friends. Embracing and cherishing these friendships brings joy, support, and fulfillment to our lives.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">What does Storge Love Mean?</h2> <p>Storge love refers to the love within a family or a sense of affection and belonging. It is often described as natural or instinctual love that arises from familial relationships, such as the love between parents and children, siblings, or extended family members.</p> <p>The term “storge” comes from the Greek word meaning “natural affection” or “family love.” Unlike other types of love, Storge love is not based on personal choice or conscious decision but rather on the bonds formed through birth or close familial connections.</p> <p>Storge love is characterized by feelings of warmth, protectiveness, and care that exist within a family unit. It involves the deep emotional attachment and unconditional love shared among family members, including parents, children, siblings, and even relatives.</p> <p>In the Bible, Storge love is often exemplified through various family relationships:</p> <ol> <li><strong>Ephesians 6:4 (NIV):</strong> “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” This verse emphasizes the parental love and responsibility to care for and nurture children.<br></li> <li><strong>1 Timothy 5:8 (NIV):</strong> “Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” Here, the importance of familial love and support is highlighted, emphasizing the responsibility to care for one’s family members.<br></li></ol> <p>Storge love is an integral part of family dynamics and plays a significant role in shaping our identities and experiences. It provides a sense of security, belonging, and emotional support within the family unit. While it may not be a choice, Storge love offers a unique and powerful bond that lasts throughout a lifetime.</p> <p>Ultimately, Storge love refers to the love within a family or the natural affection and sense of belonging that exists among family members. It is characterized by unconditional love, warmth, and care shared within the family unit. Recognizing and cherishing Storge love contributes to the well-being and emotional support within our families, fostering a deep sense of connection and belonging.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">What does Eros Love Mean?</h2> <p>Eros love refers to romantic or sexual love, often associated with passionate desire and attraction between individuals. It is a type of love that involves intense emotions, longing, and a deep physical and emotional connection between two people.</p> <p>The term “Eros” originates from Greek mythology, representing the Greek god of love and desire. Eros love is characterized by its sensual and passionate nature, encompassing both physical and emotional aspects of love.</p> <p>In the context of Christian values and teachings, eros love is regarded as a sacred and special type of love that is meant to be experienced within the boundaries of marriage. It is the love that exists between a husband and wife, where physical intimacy is cherished and celebrated.</p> <p>The Bible acknowledges the significance of eros love within the context of marriage:</p> <ol> <li><strong>Song of Solomon 1:2 (NIV):</strong> “Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—for your love is more delightful than wine.” The Song of Solomon is a poetic depiction of the passionate love and desire between a bride and groom, celebrating the beauty and sanctity of eros love within marriage.<br></li> <li><strong>1 Corinthians 7:2 (NIV):</strong> “But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.” This verse emphasizes the importance of sexual relations within the boundaries of marriage, highlighting the exclusive nature of eros love.<br></li></ol> <p>While eros love is often associated with physical intimacy and romantic desire, it is important to note that in the Christian context, it is intended to be expressed within the commitment and covenant of marriage. Outside of marriage, it is important to maintain purity and honor God’s design for sexual relationships.</p> <p>In short, eros love represents romantic or sexual love characterized by passionate desire and attraction. Within the Christian value system, eros love is regarded as a sacred and cherished love that is meant to be experienced exclusively within the context of marriage. By honoring and respecting the boundaries of eros love, individuals can cultivate a deep and fulfilling connection with their spouse, nurturing a lifelong bond based on love, respect, and commitment.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">What does “God is Love” (Agape) mean?</h2> <p>The statement “God is love” holds profound meaning in the Christian faith. It expresses the essence of God’s nature and character, revealing His unconditional, selfless, and sacrificial love for humanity. The love referred to here is Agape, a Greek word used to describe God’s divine love.</p> <p>Agape love goes beyond human understanding and surpasses other forms of love such as romantic love (Eros) or friendship love (Philia). It is selfless, giving, and seeks the best for others without expecting anything in return. Agape love is a choice and a commitment to act in a way that benefits and blesses others, regardless of their actions or worthiness.</p> <p>In the Bible, we see Agape love exemplified in God’s actions towards humanity. He demonstrated His love by sending His Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the cross for our sins (John 3:16). This act of sacrificial love, rooted in Agape, reconciled humanity to God and offered the opportunity for eternal life.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Exactly is Agape Love?</h2> <p>Agape love is characterized by several key attributes:</p> <ol> <li><strong>Selflessness:</strong> Agape love puts the needs and well-being of others above oneself. It is not motivated by personal gain or self-interest but seeks to bless and benefit others.<br></li> <li><strong>Unconditional:</strong> Agape love is not dependent on the actions, worthiness, or reciprocation of the recipient. It is freely given without any expectations or conditions.<br></li> <li><strong>Sacrificial:</strong> Agape love is willing to make sacrifices and endure hardships for the sake of others. It involves giving up personal comforts, time, resources, and even life itself, if necessary.<br></li> <li><strong>Inclusive:</strong> Agape love is all-encompassing and extends to everyone, regardless of their background, beliefs, or behavior. It embraces both friends and enemies, seeking to show kindness and compassion to all.<br></li> <li><strong>Eternal:</strong> Agape love is everlasting and unchanging. It is not dependent on circumstances or fleeting emotions but remains constant and enduring.<br></li></ol> <p>Agape love is not merely a feeling or emotion, but a way of life. It is a divine love that flows from God to humanity and is meant to be shared and expressed among believers and towards others. As followers of Jesus Christ, we are called to embody Agape love in our relationships and interactions with others.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Source of Agape Love</h2> <p>In 1 John 4:8, it tells us, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” This is a powerful truth about the nature of God and the origin of love. Love doesn’t just come from God – love <em>is</em> God. As such, we can only truly know and express agape love if we know God. </p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Jesus Christ as the Perfect Expression of Agape Love</h3> <p>In the life and actions of Jesus Christ, we see the perfect and complete expression of agape love. John 15:13 tells us, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” Jesus loved us to the extent of sacrificing His own life for us. This is the agape love that we are called to live out in our own lives.</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Agape Love in Action</h3> <p>As Christians, we’re not just called to understand agape love, but to live it out. In the book of Luke, Jesus gives the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37) to illustrate the essence of agape love. The Samaritan, moved with compassion, helped a stranger in need, even at his own expense. This is an active, self-sacrificing love that acts for the benefit of others without expecting anything in return.</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Praying for the Ability to Love</h3> <p>Paul’s prayer in Philippians 1:9-11 is powerful because it acknowledges that our ability to love abundantly comes from God. We can’t muster up agape love on our own. We need God’s Holy Spirit working within us to produce this fruit of righteousness.</p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Experiencing the Fullness of God’s Love</h3> <p>Finally, Paul’s prayer in Ephesians 3:18-19 is an acknowledgment that God’s love is vast and deep, surpassing our human understanding. However, with God’s help, we can experience this boundless love and be filled with the fullness of God.</p> <p>Remember, Romans 5:5 (ESV) says, “And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” As we grow closer to God and deeper in our understanding of Jesus, the Holy Spirit fills us with the very essence of God – love.</p> <p>Through this journey, we grow in our understanding and practice of agape love, thereby reflecting the nature of God to those around us. And that is the truest measure of a Christian – a love that acts, a love that sacrifices, and a love that is full of the presence of God.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">God’s Love World Spreading to the World</h2> <p>Going from the need for God’s agape love, it is important to recognize that this divine love originated from the beginning. In the book of Genesis, we see God’s love manifested in His creation of Adam and Eve, as they were made in His image and given the capacity to love. However, with the entrance of sin into the world, the enemy’s hatred for God’s love sought to spread its influence. The fall of humanity brought brokenness, division, and a distortion of love, as the enemy sought to separate humanity from the source of true love. Yet, even in the midst of this, God’s redemptive plan unfolded, ultimately expressed through Jesus Christ, who came to restore and demonstrate God’s agape love to the world.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-2-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/">Session 2: What Kind of Love is God’s Love?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-2-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10970</post-id> </item> <item> <title>Study Guide: What Kind of Love is God’s Love</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:06:10 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>Part 1: The Nature of Love Bible Verses: John 15:13 (NIV): “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” Philippians 1:9-11 (NIV): “And … <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/" class="more-link"><span>Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Study Guide: What Kind of Love is God’s Love</span></span></a></p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/">Study Guide: What Kind of Love is God’s Love</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part 1: The Nature of Love</h2> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Bible Verses:</h3> <ul> <li>John 15:13 (NIV): “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”</li> <li>Philippians 1:9-11 (NIV): “And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.”</li> <li>Ephesians 3:18-19 (ESV): “may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.”<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Key Takeaways:</h3> <ul> <li>God’s love is sacrificial, selfless, and unconditional.</li> <li>Jesus Christ is the perfect example of agape love, laying down His life for us.</li> <li>We need the Holy Spirit’s help to love abundantly and experience the fullness of God’s love.</li> <li>God’s love is vast and surpasses our human understanding.<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Application Questions:</h3> <ol> <li>How can you demonstrate sacrificial love in your relationships, following Jesus’ example?</li> <li>In what ways can you rely on the Holy Spirit to help you love others unconditionally?</li> <li>How can you seek a deeper understanding of God’s love and allow it to transform your own capacity to love?<br></li></ol> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part 2: Understanding Different Types of Love</h2> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Bible Verses:</h3> <ul> <li>John 11:3 (NIV): “So the sisters sent word to Jesus, ‘Lord, the one you love is sick.'”</li> <li>Ephesians 6:4 (NIV): “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”</li> <li>Song of Solomon 1:2 (NIV): “Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—for your love is more delightful than wine.”<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Key Takeaways:</h3> <ul> <li>Phileo love refers to friendship and companionship.</li> <li>Storge love represents natural affection within families.</li> <li>Eros love is romantic or passionate love.</li> <li>Agape love is selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional.<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Application Questions:</h3> <ol> <li>How can you cultivate deeper friendships and show phileo love to those around you?</li> <li>How can you express storge love within your family relationships?</li> <li>In what ways can you express eros love within the boundaries of marriage, cherishing physical intimacy as a gift from God?<br></li></ol> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part 3: Embracing God’s Love</h2> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Bible Verses:</h3> <ul> <li>1 John 4:8 (NIV): “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.”<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Key Takeaways:</h3> <ul> <li>God’s love is inseparable from His nature.</li> <li>God’s love is selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional.</li> <li>We can only truly know and express agape love when we know God.<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Application Questions:</h3> <ol> <li>How can you grow in your knowledge and understanding of God’s love?</li> <li>How can you reflect God’s love in your actions and relationships?</li> <li>How can you allow God’s love to transform your perspective on love and relationships?<br></li></ol> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part 4: Living Out Agape Love</h2> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Bible Verses:</h3> <ul> <li>Luke 10:25-37 (NIV): The Parable of the Good Samaritan.<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Key Takeaways:</h3> <ul> <li>Agape love is active and sacrificial, demonstrated through the Parable of the Good Samaritan.</li> <li>Ag<br></li></ul> <p>ape love goes beyond feelings and requires intentional action.</p> <ul> <li>We need the Holy Spirit’s empowerment to live out agape love.<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Application Questions:</h3> <ol> <li>How can you actively demonstrate agape love in your daily life?</li> <li>In what ways can you sacrificially serve others and meet their needs?</li> <li>How can you rely on the Holy Spirit’s guidance and strength to live out agape love consistently?<br></li></ol> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Small Group Discussion Questions:</h2> <ol> <li>Reflecting on the different types of love discussed (phileo, storge, eros, agape), which type of love do you find easiest or most natural to express? Which one is more challenging for you, and why?</li> <li>Share an experience when you received or witnessed someone demonstrating agape love in a powerful way. How did it impact you or those involved?</li> <li>Discuss practical ways to cultivate agape love in your relationships, both within your small group and in your broader community.<br></li></ol> <p>Remember to encourage open and respectful dialogue during the discussion, allowing everyone to share their perspectives and experiences.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/">Study Guide: What Kind of Love is God’s Love</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-what-kind-of-love-is-gods-love/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10969</post-id> </item> <item> <title>Session 3: The Legacy of Relationships</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-3-the-legacy-of-relationships/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-3-the-legacy-of-relationships/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:04:34 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-3-the-legacy-of-relationships/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>In our exploration of the concept of agape love, we discovered the profound nature of God’s unconditional and selfless love that sets us apart as Christians. Now, we delve deeper … <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-3-the-legacy-of-relationships/" class="more-link"><span>Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Session 3: The Legacy of Relationships</span></span></a></p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-3-the-legacy-of-relationships/">Session 3: The Legacy of Relationships</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In our exploration of the concept of agape love, we discovered the profound nature of God’s unconditional and selfless love that sets us apart as Christians. Now, we delve deeper into the legacy of relationships found within the pages of the Bible, recognizing that these relationships trace their origin back to the very heart of God. Just as agape love is rooted in God’s character, so too are our relationships designed to reflect the perfect unity that exists within the Father, the Holy Spirit, and Jesus. From the very beginning, before the creation of the world, these divine relationships exemplified harmony and oneness. As we embark on this journey, we will uncover the profound significance of these foundational relationships and understand how they shape our own human interactions and connections.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Trinity: The First Relationship </h2> <p>As we dive into relationships in the Bible, we find that they originate from the very heart of God. Our relationships should reflect the perfect unity of the Father, Holy Spirit, and Jesus. Before all creation, these three existed in harmony. This foundational relationship existed before Adam and Eve, before the very universe itself.</p> <p>Genesis 1:1 states, “In the beginning, God,” highlighting that the Father was present before the creation of heaven and earth. Genesis 1:2 illuminates, “the spirit of God hovered over the face of the waters,” showing the Holy Spirit was there before the earth was formed. In Hebrews 1:1-2, we learn that Jesus, too, was present before the world was created. </p> <p>Thus, the initial relationships were between the Father, the Holy Spirit, and Jesus – existing even before all of creation. As we journey through this study, we’ll understand that our concept of relationships originates from the Father, echoes through the bond of Jesus and the Holy Spirit, and circles back to the Father.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Adam and Eve: The First Husband and Wife</h2> <p>Relationships are foundational to the Bible’s narrative, with the first relationship giving birth to more relationships. It started with the creation of man. Yet, man alone wasn’t enough. Like God, man lives in relationships. Love, which defines God, requires relationships.</p> <p>Genesis 2:20 (NKJV) reads, “So Adam gave names to all cattle, to the birds of the air, and every beast of the field. But for Adam, there was not found a helper comparable to him.” Adam needed a companion. </p> <p>Moreover, mankind was charged with the responsibility of the earth, as Genesis 1:28 (NKJV) indicates: “Then God blessed them, and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.’”</p> <p>Following this, we see the creation of the first human relationship: Adam and Eve. Adam was not meant to govern the earth alone, nor was he meant only to rule. His purpose was also to multiply. For this, he needed Eve. Together, they were entrusted with the task of being fruitful, increasing, and presiding over the Earth.</p> <p>As love, a defining characteristic of God always involves choice, we see a crucial decision in human relationships: whether to follow God’s path or not. From Adam and Eve, Cain was born, inheriting the same tendency toward disobedience seen in Adam’s fall. </p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Cain and Seth: The First Legacies</h2> <p>When we flip open the pages of the Bible, we find countless stories of people, families, and their relationships. Among these narratives, the tales of two brothers, Cain and Seth, stand out distinctly. The Bible traces their separate lineages and, through these, reveals valuable lessons on the nature of relationships and their impacts on society. </p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Cain’s Lineage: The Path of Defiance</h3> <p>Cain’s story starts in a very personal and tragic way. He is known for committing the first act of murder in the Bible, taking the life of his brother Abel out of envy and anger (Genesis 4:8). This action, driven by negative emotions and a lack of respect for life and relationships, sets the tone for his descendants.</p> <p>Throughout the Bible, we see a continuation of this rebellious and violent streak in Cain’s lineage. This becomes glaringly evident in the days of Noah. Genesis 6:5 reveals a world where “every inclination of the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all the time”. The world had strayed so far from God’s commands that He found it necessary to send a catastrophic flood to cleanse the earth.</p> <p>Even after the flood, defiance against God’s authority persisted. This is shown in the story of the Tower of Babel in Genesis 11. In an attempt to establish their power and independence from God, the people decided to “make a name for themselves” by building a towering structure reaching up to heaven. This act, driven by pride and disobedience, epitomizes the spirit of Cain’s lineage.</p> <p>Towards the end of the Bible, in the book of Revelation, we encounter the Harlot Babylon. The Harlot is depicted in Revelation 17:5 as a symbol of a society living in complete defiance of God. It’s a society characterized by pride, self-indulgence, and willful rejection of God’s commands, a direct result of the sinful choices of its inhabitants. </p> <p>In essence, Cain’s legacy portrays a pathway that leads to a society that strays from God’s commands, replacing love and respect with pride and defiance. </p> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Seth’s Lineage: The Path of Faithfulness</h3> <p>Now, let’s turn to the story of Seth. In contrast to Cain, Seth’s lineage is a shining example of faithfulness and devotion to God. </p> <p>Seth’s descendants include figures like Noah, who found favor with God amidst a wicked generation (Genesis 6:8-9). They also include the patriarchs – Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob – who established a covenant relationship with God and laid the foundation of the Israelite nation.</p> <p>Furthermore, the genealogy in Luke 3:23-38 traces the lineage of Jesus Christ, the Savior of humanity, back to Seth. This connection ties Seth’s lineage to the fulfillment of God’s promise of redemption and eternal life.</p> <p>The book of Revelation also gives us a contrasting picture to the Harlot Babylon, that of the New Jerusalem (Revelation 21:2). The New Jerusalem is a holy city, prepared like a bride for her husband. This image represents a society that lives in harmony with God’s will, honoring His laws and commandments. It’s a city marked by purity, faithfulness, and righteousness – the characteristics that define a godly relationship.</p> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Lessons Do These Stories Teach Us?</h2> <p>So, what do these lineages of Cain and Seth teach us about our relationships? The Bible, through these narratives, encourages us to take a good look at our relationships. Are our actions more in line with Cain’s defiance or Seth’s faithfulness? Are we contributing to the turmoil of a society like Babylon or are we working towards the serenity and godliness of the New Jerusalem?</p> <p>Godly relationships, as exemplified by Seth’s lineage, are defined by love, respect, and faithfulness. Most importantly, they require obedience to God’s commandments. As believers, we are called to infuse these attributes into all our relationships.</p> <p>The Bible gives us a clear choice – to follow Cain’s path of rebellion or to emulate Seth’s path of faithfulness. By choosing to follow Seth’s example and seeking to establish godly relationships, we can contribute to a more loving, respectful, and godly world – a reflection of the New Jerusalem.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-3-the-legacy-of-relationships/">Session 3: The Legacy of Relationships</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/session-3-the-legacy-of-relationships/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10968</post-id> </item> <item> <title>Study Guide: The Legacy of Relationships</title> <link>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-legacy-of-relationships/</link> <comments>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-legacy-of-relationships/#respond</comments> <dc:creator><![CDATA[The Manays]]></dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:03:52 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-legacy-of-relationships/</guid> <description><![CDATA[<p>Part 1: The First Relationship Bible Verses: Genesis 1:1 (NKJV): “In the beginning, God…” Genesis 1:2 (NKJV): “…the Spirit of God hovered over the face of the waters.” Hebrews 1:1-2 … <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-legacy-of-relationships/" class="more-link"><span>Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Study Guide: The Legacy of Relationships</span></span></a></p><p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-legacy-of-relationships/">Study Guide: The Legacy of Relationships</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part 1: The First Relationship</h2> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Bible Verses:</h3> <ul> <li>Genesis 1:1 (NKJV): “In the beginning, God…”</li> <li>Genesis 1:2 (NKJV): “…the Spirit of God hovered over the face of the waters.”</li> <li>Hebrews 1:1-2 (NKJV): “God… has in these last days spoken to us by His Son…”<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Key Takeaways:</h3> <ul> <li>The initial relationships were between the Father, the Holy Spirit, and Jesus.</li> <li>These divine relationships existed even before the creation of the world.</li> <li>Our concept of relationships originates from the perfect unity of the triune God.<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Application Questions:</h3> <ol> <li>How does knowing that relationships are rooted in the nature of God impact the way you view and approach your own relationships?</li> <li>In what ways can you seek to reflect the unity and love of the Father, Holy Spirit, and Jesus in your relationships?<br></li></ol> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part 2: Adam and Eve: The First Husband and Wife</h2> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Bible Verses:</h3> <ul> <li>Genesis 2:20 (NKJV): “But for Adam, there was not found a helper comparable to him.”</li> <li>Genesis 1:28 (NKJV): “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it…”<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Key Takeaways:</h3> <ul> <li>Adam needed a companion, and Eve was created to be his helper.</li> <li>The purpose of their relationship included ruling over the earth and multiplying.</li> <li>Choices made in relationships can have a significant impact on future generations.<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Application Questions:</h3> <ol> <li>In what ways can you support and be a helper to your spouse or significant other in your relationship?</li> <li>How can you fulfill the purpose of your relationship by ruling over and caring for the earth and those around you?</li> <li>Reflect on the importance of your choices in relationships and how they can shape the legacy you leave for future generations.<br></li></ol> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Part 3: Cain and Seth: The First Legacies</h2> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Bible Verses:</h3> <ul> <li>Genesis 4:8 (NKJV): “Now Cain talked with Abel his brother; and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother and killed him.”<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Key Takeaways:</h3> <ul> <li>Cain’s lineage represents a path of defiance, disobedience, and violence against God’s commands.</li> <li>Seth’s lineage exemplifies faithfulness, devotion, and a continuation of God’s promises.</li> <li>Our choices in relationships can contribute to either a society that strays from God or one that reflects godly characteristics.<br></li></ul> <h3 class="wp-block-heading">Application Questions:</h3> <ol> <li>Reflect on the choices you make in your relationships. Do they align with Cain’s path of defiance or Seth’s path of faithfulness? How can you make more godly choices?</li> <li>In what ways can you contribute to creating a society that reflects godly values and honors God’s commands?</li> <li>How can you actively participate in building relationships and communities that reflect the characteristics of the New Jerusalem?<br></li></ol> <h2 class="wp-block-heading">Small Group Discussion Questions:</h2> <ol> <li>Share an example of a relationship in your life that reflects godly characteristics. How does this relationship inspire and challenge you?</li> <li>Discuss the impact of our choices in relationships on future generations. How can we ensure that our relationships leave a positive and lasting legacy?</li> <li>How can we actively contribute to creating a society that reflects godly values and respects God’s commands? Brainstorm practical steps that individuals and the group can take.<br></li></ol> <p>Remember to foster an open and respectful environment for discussion, allowing everyone to share their thoughts and experiences. Encourage group members to reflect on their personal relationships and consider practical ways to apply the insights from the study.</p> <p>The post <a href="https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-legacy-of-relationships/">Study Guide: The Legacy of Relationships</a> appeared first on <a href="https://themanays.com">THE MANAYS</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>https://themanays.com/2023/11/22/study-guide-the-legacy-of-relationships/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <post-id xmlns="com-wordpress:feed-additions:1">10967</post-id> </item> </channel></rss>If you would like to create a banner that links to this page (i.e. this validation result), do the following:
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