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  1. <?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643</id><updated>2024-04-10T02:23:36.891-05:00</updated><category term="homeschool"/><category term="Reviews"/><category term="reflections"/><category term="recipes"/><category term="Random Thoughts"/><category term="weight loss"/><category term="cousin camp"/><category term="everyday life"/><category term="being mom"/><category term="30 Day Blog Challenge"/><category term="Christmas"/><category term="summertime"/><category term="books"/><category term="Learning to Live a Beautiful Life"/><category term="My Journal Jar"/><category 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term="tea towels"/><category term="teachability"/><category term="tutu"/><category term="unit studies"/><category term="vi"/><category term="zoo"/><title type='text'>There Will Be A $5.00 Charge For Whining</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1117</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-8305123489159241884</id><published>2024-03-04T10:01:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2024-03-04T10:01:59.233-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="reflections"/><title type='text'>Starting Again</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;It&#39;s been a good while since I&#39;ve felt like writing. I&#39;ve started several times and have a few unfinished drafts of ramblings I spared you from.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You&#39;re welcome.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My creative juices have always ebbed and flowed. Since I haven&#39;t written as much over the past few years, those juices certainly haven&#39;t flowed as mightly. Practice does make perfect on occasion.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The truth of my absence and limited creativity is much more complex and private. Frankly, 2023 was a year of extreme lows and very few highs. I can say that there were victories...my weight loss has been consistent (more on that another day). And any day that I have breath in my body and a chance to see the beauty in my life is a good day.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But there were things that happened in 2023 that were heart-wrenching and soul-crushing. I can&#39;t be completely transparent about some of those things because they aren&#39;t my stories to tell. But...there is nothing so humbling or scary as being a parent. Or a child.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I can tell you that both of my parents faced health issues in 2023. I went to the farm in October and stayed for a few weeks. My dad had an injury that turned into a life-threatening infection. It was frightening to see my strong and stalwart dad in so much pain. But we did what we always do. Pulled up our britches, made a cup of coffee, and got on with it.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;He is doing better but whether or not he is taking care of himself is questionable.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I had a few goals coming into the new year concerning my professional and creative goals.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I wanted to write consistently. I want to complete a devotional book this year. I am currently working on revamping our family cookbook. I have created several journals and a few activity books for sale. I want to continue to really pursue and promote that venture.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Realistically, I haven&#39;t done a good job of holding myself accountable. But I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I think that I had been experiencing a delayed trauma reaction and had shut down in some respects.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Writing has generally been a healing outlet for me. In fact, it was after a second bout of congestive heart failure that I started this blog. This time, I didn&#39;t even know how to express what I was feeling or what I needed. Depression? Maybe. Anxiety? Most certainly. Living in survival mode? We all do it from time to time.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think it is so important to be able to recognize those valleys in our lives for what they are. Life is tough. Life can be cruel and unfair. But it can also be joyous and crazy and quiet. A healthy life recognizes that a good life contains all of those things.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For now, I hold to my philosophy of life. That our lives are made up of small moments. The big ones can overwhelm us, crush us, or in turn, bless us. But it&#39;s the small moments that satisfy, that comfort, that keep us grounded and grateful.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Here is to the quiet cup of tea, a random evening walk around the neighborhood, the meaningful conversation with a loved one, the flicker of a candle, the sounds and smells of a pot of soup bubbling on the stove, or the beautiful words of a hymn.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Talk to you soon.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/8305123489159241884/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2024/03/starting-again.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/8305123489159241884'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/8305123489159241884'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2024/03/starting-again.html' title='Starting Again'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-1309053796221663694</id><published>2023-11-11T16:17:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2023-11-11T16:17:15.365-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Christmas"/><title type='text'>I Made Something! </title><content type='html'>This has been a season of &quot;Nope. Not going to happen today.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Gurl.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I&#39;ve had great plans. I was going to post a whole lot of fall-inspired content in October. Then October actually happened and I posted not a one. Not even a single Pumpkin Spiced anything.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It truly has been my goal to nourish and cultivate some life back into my little blog. However, all that nourishing has had to be focused on different areas of my life.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I&#39;ve also needed some inspiration. I truly love to write and create. There is something so fulfilling about being creative.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One creative task I&#39;ve been leaning into has been creating KDP products for Amazon. KDP stands for Kindle Direct Publishing.&amp;nbsp; I&#39;ve not advertised or done anything to promote what I&#39;ve created. It is certainly a hobby and I&#39;m finding my groove.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;For one of the latest projects, I&#39;ve taken advantage of my Early Childhood teaching and education and have created a &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CKKVQXZP&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Christmas Activity boo&lt;/a&gt;k. It is sooo cute.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CKKVQXZP&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;600&quot; data-original-width=&quot;900&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi98v-bFLTrToHWnJj3l1n_vyhvrEpuOU_Oec8E9N1wdOpW6b3AKKODOLZVEt_yJqCg9idjEWxLSPYapVPv8zHCM35uSoIbQ2kH0NMEk8P76O9Hn3ImVNFCuNoV-Lb3MkVgbY_55ZwVWZxSVMRFH4AHvaCNtkj79xIR9z0iW6wAklSPfNh2otxRCMEUi5q3/w400-h266/Book%20Cover%20and%20Interior%20Mockup.png&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There are a few projects that are in the works that will feature my Mom&#39;s artwork. AND in the next few weeks, I am going to be publishing our family cookbook. We have a version of it that is 20-plus years old that we hand-created ourselves. There are limited copies and it was time to take advantage of our current opportunities and make a new one. It is really coming along nicely. I had suggestions for what to include from all of the Cousins. Many of them learned to cook their favorites from our little cookbook. I&#39;ll be sure to share that and some of the other things I&#39;ve been working on.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So. This next week. Be prepared to be slammed, saturated, and greatly annoyed by the posts I am going to throw your way. It is time for Beke to get back in the game!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/1309053796221663694/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/11/i-made-something.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/1309053796221663694'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/1309053796221663694'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/11/i-made-something.html' title='I Made Something! '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi98v-bFLTrToHWnJj3l1n_vyhvrEpuOU_Oec8E9N1wdOpW6b3AKKODOLZVEt_yJqCg9idjEWxLSPYapVPv8zHCM35uSoIbQ2kH0NMEk8P76O9Hn3ImVNFCuNoV-Lb3MkVgbY_55ZwVWZxSVMRFH4AHvaCNtkj79xIR9z0iW6wAklSPfNh2otxRCMEUi5q3/s72-w400-h266-c/Book%20Cover%20and%20Interior%20Mockup.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-9041803715678530634</id><published>2023-07-07T21:56:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2023-07-07T21:56:54.376-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Rest, Recovery, and The Farm</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;It&#39;s been a minute.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I should probably quit trying to think of a catchy opening and just stick with a tried and true. An oldie but goodie.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#39;s been a minute.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#39;s also been wild, ya&#39;ll!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My friends. I have been in the hospital. Again! Shortly before Christmas, I was there for a Rona/Flu/Blood Pressure extravaganza. This time around, I caught some strange intestinal virus and ended up dehydrated and with crazy low blood pressure. One of my nurses is one that I had during my last go-around. Even she remembered my crazy blood pressure issues. Only with the Rona/Flu combo it was high blood pressure.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I can&#39;t take myself anywhere.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At least this time I got to go spend a few weeks with my Momma.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And it was bliss. I didn&#39;t do a whole lot. Mom made me strange tea concoctions and let me sleep as much as I could.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This. This, my people, is why, at 51, I still need my Momma.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A few nights I woke up to her making sure I was covered up.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would have happily stayed at The Farm the entirety of the summer, but...adulting.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I meant to blog and record the whole happy farm experience. The best laid plans of mice and men...Frankly, I was too busy resting and drinking crazy tea concoctions.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I will share a few pics. One or two I actually took. The rest I shamelessly poached from Mom and my nephew, Chris.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;m in love. These girls are too precious. Mom and Dad recently had a chicken catastrophe so their numbers are few. There is another black hen but she was probably terrorizing a duck.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlbN9y3OG0gXxd--xYqJ669C-Z0GGpLQKvx1Rq-NXRV0iomcT5B3J_PsKcGT4mTtH2f4z-qOfvWJkRNwcO9Gru_HWl7cBCoSKbxltwIzzV7FbE1PiyehzzQBJYfOvNdQ_4p8jFGAbw9tUK8v0vVNuJEvvTR-PWYWXUerdPsxv66eN8wUOnfLuIXqSQHSBJ/s1008/Resized_20230621_090454.jpeg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;1008&quot; data-original-width=&quot;756&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlbN9y3OG0gXxd--xYqJ669C-Z0GGpLQKvx1Rq-NXRV0iomcT5B3J_PsKcGT4mTtH2f4z-qOfvWJkRNwcO9Gru_HWl7cBCoSKbxltwIzzV7FbE1PiyehzzQBJYfOvNdQ_4p8jFGAbw9tUK8v0vVNuJEvvTR-PWYWXUerdPsxv66eN8wUOnfLuIXqSQHSBJ/w300-h400/Resized_20230621_090454.jpeg&quot; width=&quot;300&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;I actually took this one. This is the view from their spectacular back deck. Of course, the truck is blocking some of the garden views. There is also a wounded lawn mower as part of the scenery. While we were there the boys harvested oodles of green beans and Mom put them up (canned them). I, myself, snapped a few before Mom sent me to my room with some tea and instructed me to take a nap. When can I go back?&amp;nbsp;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFjAG6DYLSGp-jrKg7Rk1XSgXUVpq0oOAPjNmqSrJsGEf1U7uB-QduEUueKmNoWXOIJoBOs0wFczCWBd9xF0Y-xUVkwEFPlq7W3PvR8OO0foca3eNcngPxuawMSgzKh7m614hyO6_CKhLDTl6BJ7FhX17a9VIt-1nZ6Co8VV_T_d4XTDWj7F4H981TJSdZ/s4160/20230628_103039.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;3120&quot; data-original-width=&quot;4160&quot; height=&quot;300&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFjAG6DYLSGp-jrKg7Rk1XSgXUVpq0oOAPjNmqSrJsGEf1U7uB-QduEUueKmNoWXOIJoBOs0wFczCWBd9xF0Y-xUVkwEFPlq7W3PvR8OO0foca3eNcngPxuawMSgzKh7m614hyO6_CKhLDTl6BJ7FhX17a9VIt-1nZ6Co8VV_T_d4XTDWj7F4H981TJSdZ/w400-h300/20230628_103039.jpg&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;This boy. He&#39;s living his best life. Dad doesn&#39;t give up his lawn mowing duties easily. He takes the cutting of the grass very seriously. Josiah learned from the best. He whipped the mower &#39;cross hill and dale. Just look on at the expression on his face.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjshHG5Z61U9JLlePzrNfWiPgMLqpPTmMYDTY3CmzzWqt-ch-OYoEomQMGGwoRx2pVQNJR8yCBhQTW7iAhCoSbpS_5VOakVGgc0sEPKLKEmysVGpqBQhZK-JnusBL11k7BkjgnNoLffsTIYdfiMOVxPNOtHTCoEqeUNJEMtTQC0nLC5MRTjk-YqTPUR8Kk4/s1427/20230628_115245.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;1427&quot; data-original-width=&quot;1184&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjshHG5Z61U9JLlePzrNfWiPgMLqpPTmMYDTY3CmzzWqt-ch-OYoEomQMGGwoRx2pVQNJR8yCBhQTW7iAhCoSbpS_5VOakVGgc0sEPKLKEmysVGpqBQhZK-JnusBL11k7BkjgnNoLffsTIYdfiMOVxPNOtHTCoEqeUNJEMtTQC0nLC5MRTjk-YqTPUR8Kk4/w333-h400/20230628_115245.jpg&quot; width=&quot;333&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;This is Cousin Chris. Just over a year ago, we weren&#39;t sure what Chris&#39; quality of life was going to be. He was in a car accident with my mom and dad. This boy is a walking miracle. He is a joy to be around. He is also every man. He is the chicken whisperer, expert weed picker, handyman, and stir fry maker. We tried to bring him home with us. His dad needed him. Shucky dern.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUkACepWI3ssiMABxd6_yOOihqk7PUonTZpBGasHHRNz2Xg2IQgOPovApyv4aeFRx2uIBQUvPX-75jMil30bjPFYRrvodJ01oHzUqoeAhgR6PIUCfA-SsOfC2_2AwenQJ761ZUXtaufqBT-qVN3iOkMMwjh8v1PlvpOO9Bd8gpFBO5IDvOrALxAAZZiDal/s4032/20230628_120221.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;3024&quot; data-original-width=&quot;4032&quot; height=&quot;300&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUkACepWI3ssiMABxd6_yOOihqk7PUonTZpBGasHHRNz2Xg2IQgOPovApyv4aeFRx2uIBQUvPX-75jMil30bjPFYRrvodJ01oHzUqoeAhgR6PIUCfA-SsOfC2_2AwenQJ761ZUXtaufqBT-qVN3iOkMMwjh8v1PlvpOO9Bd8gpFBO5IDvOrALxAAZZiDal/w400-h300/20230628_120221.jpg&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don&#39;t have any other pics to share. We did get to have lunch with aunts and uncles. That is always such a treasured time. This particular group contains two of my Dad&#39;s oldest sisters and their husbands. I wish I would have gotten a picture with all of them together. These are the most precious people you will ever meet...in your life. And I&#39;m not kidding. A good time was had by all.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I also got to spend time at my brother&#39;s house while the boys and Dad helped on a remodel project. One of my great agonies in life is being so far away from my family, which especially includes my nieces and nephews. They have grown up to be spectacular people. We didn&#39;t get to have Cousin Camp this year. Some of these people actually have full-time jobs! The nerve! Still others, have busy summers and are in between college semesters. My oldest niece was in the Dominican Republic on a missions trip during part of my visit.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Of course, there were a few flea markets to visit. Surprisingly, I didn&#39;t buy very much on my trip. It&#39;s amazing how much energy is required to &quot;shop &#39;til you drop.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Well, that&#39;s all I can manage for tonight. There is a mystery book that is calling my name.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/9041803715678530634/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/07/rest-recovery-and-farm.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/9041803715678530634'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/9041803715678530634'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/07/rest-recovery-and-farm.html' title='Rest, Recovery, and The Farm'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlbN9y3OG0gXxd--xYqJ669C-Z0GGpLQKvx1Rq-NXRV0iomcT5B3J_PsKcGT4mTtH2f4z-qOfvWJkRNwcO9Gru_HWl7cBCoSKbxltwIzzV7FbE1PiyehzzQBJYfOvNdQ_4p8jFGAbw9tUK8v0vVNuJEvvTR-PWYWXUerdPsxv66eN8wUOnfLuIXqSQHSBJ/s72-w300-h400-c/Resized_20230621_090454.jpeg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-5159729936555578391</id><published>2023-07-07T21:14:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2023-07-07T21:14:50.747-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sunshine and Closets</title><content type='html'>&lt;i&gt;Note: This is a brief little post that I wrote back in May but neglected to post. Good grief!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Been feeling like you are missing a chatty post that will waste a good portion of your Friday evening? Well...I&#39;m here for you. And don&#39;t tell me that you have never spent a good 42 hours down the rabbit hole that is scrolling on Instagram.&amp;nbsp;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Today was a beautiful day. Sunshiney. 74 degrees. And I got to go get a gel manicure from my &quot;nail girl.&quot; I call her a girl, but she&#39;s in her 40s. I waffled between getting a pale matte mauve color and a bright bold fushia.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The fushia won out.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A few hours later, I had an appointment with my endocrinologist. I got fabulous news. My blood sugar is awesome and I have lost 20 pounds since I saw him last.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I love that guy. He is one of those who still wears a tie and shakes my hand when he comes in.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It was an overall great day.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Except for that portion of the day when I fell in my closet.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And when I say...&quot;fell in my closet&quot;...I mean fell into my closet.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;My closet extends the entire length of one of the walls of my small office. This small office is off our bedroom. It is really a dressing room/library/craft room, etc. etc.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Let&#39;s say that it has a tendency towards hoarding.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;At some point, while walking into the room to get dressed and put on my make-up, I lost my balance and fell &quot;into the closet.&quot; My head was buried between a 31 tote bag and a couple of totes of scrapbooking supplies stored at the bottom of the closet.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Goodness, gracious.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;No worries. One of the reasons I might have lost my balance was because I was carrying my phone around and wasn&#39;t able to navigate super great over the piles of baskets, pillows, and other paraphernalia hanging out in my office.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I called The Muffin and he graciously rescued me.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I&#39;m no worse for the wear....Still need to work on that closet.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/5159729936555578391/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/07/sunshine-and-closets.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/5159729936555578391'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/5159729936555578391'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/07/sunshine-and-closets.html' title='Sunshine and Closets'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-1704493198957587320</id><published>2023-05-01T19:27:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2023-05-01T19:27:17.682-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Journal Entry (February 2023)</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Note: For the next few posts, I am going to share several months&#39; worth of posts or journal entries. I didn&#39;t post them at the time because I was stressed, uninspired and didn&#39;t think they were worth sharing. We can all get in our heads.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Shew! I just checked my blog posts archive and I have really dropped the ball. It has been months since I posted. I really do have a few good excuses. I started doing a little bit of an update on Facebook. It gradually grew into a novel. I decided to forget it and post on my blog instead. I have some big goals for my blog now that I am done with school (you heard right!). Now is as good a time as any to start.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Instead of writing a ginormous rambling post, I will revert to my trusty numbering system. It is what I do when I have a lot to say and need to keep things brief. You&#39;re welcome.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. Most friends and family know that Troy has been driving back and forth from our house to his home town (about 3 hours away) weekly to help care for his parents. His mother had really declined over the past year. It was a labor of love. She passed away a few days after Thanksgiving. We were actually there when she had a stroke. She never woke up. Her family made the difficult decision to take her off life support. She had family with her constantly and was never alone. It was some of the hardest days we have had to experience. Troy preached her funeral. It was beautiful and sad.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. We had gone home just a few days before she died. I was nearly out of medicine and Josiah needed to get back to work. I hadn&#39;t been feeling while and it turns out, neither had Troy. It was Covid. All three of us (and some additional family members) had it. We were now quarantined and sick. Good times.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. We were all tested at the emergency room because we needed to know for sure that we had it because of the current circumstances. Troy and I were given the anti-viral medication. I actually felt pretty good after a few days, considering. We think that Troy caught it at the emergency room when his mom initially had the stroke.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. A few days after my quarantine ended, I got sick again. I went to the doctor. Turns out I had a rebound Covid case. Of course, I did. Yippee! A few days after that, I had to go to the emergency room because my blood pressure readings were too high. I spent 2 1/2 days in the hospital. I am now resting at home and monitoring my BP. A few days ago, I had a follow-up visit with my doctor. I not only had Covid in the hospital but I had Influenza A, as well. Of course, I did.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. In the middle of this Josiah celebrated in 21st birthday. His grandma died on his 21st birthday. We were going to have a party. He wanted walking tacos and a cake from the grocery store.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;6. On the day I was released from the hospital, I also graduated from college. I obviously didn&#39;t attend the ceremony. It hasn&#39;t sunk in yet. I expected it to feel differently.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So life goes on. There are too many things to think about. It is all overwhelming. I know in time we will be able to process all of it. Maybe not today.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/1704493198957587320/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/05/journal-entry-february-2023.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/1704493198957587320'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/1704493198957587320'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/05/journal-entry-february-2023.html' title='Journal Entry (February 2023)'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-5899101379428683618</id><published>2023-05-01T19:23:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2023-05-01T19:23:03.313-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Journal Entry (September 2022)</title><content type='html'>Note: For the next few posts, I am going to share several months&#39; worth of posts or journal entries. I didn&#39;t post them at the time because I was stressed, uninspired and didn&#39;t think they were worth sharing. We can all get in our heads.&amp;nbsp;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I may or may not have mentioned before that there is a good chance I&#39;m going through menopause.&amp;nbsp;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Yay! Way to start off the post, Beke. Let them know all of your secrets. To be honest there isn&#39;t any way I can hide it. One sweet lady asked me at church Wednesday night if I had been in the sun.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Nope. Just had a major hot flash on the way over from the Parsonage.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I&#39;m fine. Really, I&#39;m fine.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This little milestone in my life isn&#39;t all there is to tell but I thought I would mention it just in case I seem particularly snarky.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I posted last week that I have started my last semester of college. Pretty good for an old broad. In fact, one of the classes I am taking is called &quot;Society and Aging.&quot; I just found out that I qualify for my Class Project. The Class Project is to interview and record someone over 50 about their life story.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Say what? I can interview myself? Somehow I think that isn&#39;t going to work out. I&#39;m going to use my momma as my subject. She should feel privileged considering almost everyone I know is over 50.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Josiah is working at a local grocery store as a facer. He is so good at his job that he has a bad habit of &quot;facing&quot; shelves in other businesses. I caught him organizing the candy aisle the other day at the Dollar Tree.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;He has gotten in trouble for taking too much time &quot;visiting&quot; while he has supposed to be working. Considering the kid was homeschooled, I figure he&#39;s making up for lost time. I never had to issue a &quot;talks too much to his classmates&quot; note for home.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It&#39;s tough being a pastor&#39;s kid and a young man in general in today&#39;s culture. Every day I pray that God reveals himself to my boy in a meaningful way. I pray that God sends people into his life that encourage him to make choices for himself that are healthy and inspired. If you are a praying person, could you help me in lifting our boy up?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This season of life has brought sorrow in a variety of ways. We have lost members of our congregation in the past few months. We pastor an older congregation and Troy has certainly performed more funerals than weddings. Not only do we feel their loss in our lives but it also reminds us how fragile life is.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I haven&#39;t spoken about this much but Troy has spent the last year traveling 2 1/2 hours from our home to stay with his parents at least&amp;nbsp; 2-3 days a week. About this time last year, his momma had surgery on her spine. She had been gradually losing strength and mobility and we had hoped that the surgery would give her some much-needed relief.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Basically, the surgery prevented her from becoming paralyzed, but her quality of life has not been great. She needs care 24/7. She is still at home and being cared for by Troy&#39;s dad, who also suffers from mobility issues.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I can tell you that though Troy wouldn&#39;t have it any other way or do anything any differently, his life right now is complicated and stretching. There aren&#39;t many hours in his day that aren&#39;t accounted for. We have had to take moments unconventionally and sacrificially to spend much time together.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Last week, he had obligations not only during the 4 days he was here at home but also had something going on every evening as well. He leaves every Wednesday night after Bible Study and comes home on Saturday mornings.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Today when he got home (on Saturday) he swept the floor for me, spent a few minutes in the office, then went out with Josiah so they could spend some time together. When he got home, he received a call that we had lost one of our congregation members. He then spent the rest of the afternoon and most of the evening in the office before coming home for some supper and a little college football.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I will tell you that our congregation has been wonderfully supportive. We have had friends in the community that we know are praying for us and for Troy&#39;s folks.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It is also draining and heartbreaking and leaves him pulled in a million different directions.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;He doesn&#39;t begrudge it though.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I, myself, have had a rougher year physically. Have I mentioned menopause?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Mostly, I have had some really serious asthma issues and struggles with my blood pressure. Currently, I am doing well but I have my only little pharmaceutical operation going on. I try so hard to be good to myself. Some days I am better than others. The metal in my body has aged with me. So far so good but there are days when I can&#39;t walk as well as I&#39;d like.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It is easy to get wrapped up in the big picture or the end result. I have decided that small moments eventually make a difference in the big picture and that is what I must focus on.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I make myself do at least one hour of schoolwork each morning.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I make myself take a little bit of time to make up a meal or two for myself ahead. Even if it is to put some leftovers in a container.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I make myself get out of the house and move even when my body and brain tell me it would be better just to go back to bed.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It&#39;s not perfect.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Currently, my life is a bit of a mess.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I can&#39;t even get into my office. It is a little room off our bedroom that also contains my closet and vanity. I can tell myself all I want that I have just been wearing the same 4 outfits for convenience and comfort but the truth is it&#39;s too much trouble to crawl over boxes and bags of &quot;who knows what.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I need to give the house a good moping and there might be an unintended fungus growing in the tub and fridge. Real life sometimes is gross and impossible. I miss my parents and I miss feeling like I have life by the tail.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One of the benefits of aging is understanding that life moves on. That one season is not like another. That we have to put to use what we&#39;ve been given and find joy in each other....not our expectations.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/5899101379428683618/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/05/journal-entry-september-2022.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/5899101379428683618'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/5899101379428683618'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/05/journal-entry-september-2022.html' title='Journal Entry (September 2022)'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-3342704163248107057</id><published>2023-05-01T19:16:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2023-05-01T19:16:19.278-05:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="reflections"/><title type='text'>Back in the Saddle (again)</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;It’s been a minute.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  2.  
  3. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;I could wax eternal about life, the universe and everything
  4. in it, but I am (frankly) not in the mood to pontificate. If I tell you that
  5. the last several months have been a doozy…believe me. And we aren’t talking the
  6. fun kinda doozy, either. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  7.  
  8. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;I am not going to spill all the beans (or my guts) but trust
  9. me when I say that feel so much for those of you who are going through the
  10. fire. I also know that there are varying degrees of burns…and they all hurt.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  11.  
  12. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;For one, we lost my mother-in-law last November. She had
  13. been failing so we knew that we would eventually have to say good-bye. But
  14. there was always a small hope that she would somehow recover her strength. It
  15. has been a strange world without her.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  16.  
  17. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;We were with her when she had a massive stroke. One of the
  18. most heartbreaking scenes I have ever witnessed was watching my husband and
  19. father-in-law try and wake her up. Another heartbreaking scene was several days
  20. later when I heard my husband sobbing on the phone as his sister called him to
  21. tell him she had finally passed. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  22.  
  23. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;There is much more to the story but subsequent illnesses,
  24. and unrelated events have left me fatigued and heartbroken. I’m not sure how
  25. other creative-type people work, but stress does me in. My creative energy has
  26. gone into a free fall. I have only recently started to see flashes of
  27. inspiration from the corners of my eyes. It could be all of the pollen that is
  28. floating freely in Indiana but I like the idea of coming back to life just a
  29. bit better. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  30.  
  31. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;Those flashes of inspiration (or pollen…take your pick) have
  32. reminded me that I need to feed my mind and soul with beauty and hope. Part of
  33. that hope is to talk of God’s goodness…despite circumstances and situations. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  34.  
  35. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit; font-size: medium;&quot;&gt;So here we are again. The storms of life are not as violent
  36. as they were a few months ago…though the damage that has been done is lasting. We
  37. all are a little scarred and weather-beaten but are reminded that God is
  38. faithful and….in the words of the fabulous Kelly Clarkson…”What doesn’t kill you
  39. makes you stronger.”&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/3342704163248107057/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/05/back-in-saddle-again.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/3342704163248107057'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/3342704163248107057'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2023/05/back-in-saddle-again.html' title='Back in the Saddle (again)'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-8849280528461917529</id><published>2022-08-24T21:32:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2022-08-24T21:32:44.536-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Classes Have Started! </title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Whelp. I did it.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last week was my first week back of my final semester. At least for this stage of the game. Whether or not I go back and get my Master&#39;s remains to be seen.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I meant to do a whole first year back in college recap back in May. Obviously, I found something else to do.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As an online student, my school supply list was pretty basic. If you have ever had to purchase college textbooks you know that it would have to be. But then again, I have no idea what the cool kids on campus have in the way of school supplies. I am content with a hot beverage, my laptop, and my cat for company.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I did order a pack of fancy gel pens and picked up a pretty hardcover notebook at TJ Maxx. I have always had the best time going back to school shopping. Let&#39;s be honest. Office Supplies make me happy. If I happen to gift you with a journal and a gel pen, you know that I love you. I have found that, in general, office supplies aren&#39;t as fun when one is taking classes online. I will use my pretty notebook and gel pens to write out lists, take vague notes during online lectures, and doodle.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Instead of more notebooks, some sort of sturdy backpack, and writing utensils, I bought a steam mop and a cute duster-length cardigan in the color &quot;latte.&quot;&amp;nbsp; The purchase of the $80 Charactertistics of Human Resources book didn&#39;t quite have the same charge. A girl has to have her kicks somewhere.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am a bit proud of myself. I only needed seven credits to graduate, but in the world of college credits, I actually had to take three specific courses to complete my major. As I am generally over the top, I am taking twelve credits this semester. Why take any chances?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anyhoo. Last spring I procrastinated in registering for my classes for this semester. One of my required courses had to be from a list of Upper Division Elective courses. I really wanted to get into the popular &quot;History of Rock&quot; class. Let&#39;s face it. Everyone needs a few of those kinds of classes in their college career. We used to joke about underwater basket weaving and the like, but I get it. Sometimes, the fewer brain cells involved the better.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I didn&#39;t get into the class. Instead, there were only a few classes that had available spots. My advisor recommended that I take Research and Development Something Something Something. I say &quot;something&quot; because I can&#39;t even remember the complete title of the class. Fast forward to a few weeks ago. I ordered my books and when they came in the mail I gave all of them a quick flip-through.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Research and Development Something Something Something was in all actuality some kind of class engineers take. THERE WERE FORMULAS AND MATH ALL THROUGH THE TEXBOOK. Can you feel my panic?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Friends. My last math class was in 2000. It was Math for Teachers. The one before that was College Algebra and it took place in roughly 1997. And do I resemble an engineer? I am the least analytical person I know.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I frantically emailed my advisor. How in the world could we fix this? It wasn&#39;t a matter of dropping it and taking something more appealing. I HAD to take something from the Upper Division Elective list and those classes were fulled up, jack. She suggested that try to register for something else every day and keep on trying. After all, folks do a lot of moving classes around that first week or so before school.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For the next two weeks, I tried to add &quot;classes&quot; (plural). Three. Times. A. Day. Nothing. The day before classes started I had decided that maybe Jesus knew something about me and engineering that I didn&#39;t. Maybe this would be something I was good at...like binge reading and thrift shopping.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thankfully, Jesus knows all things, and as the morning classes began one of those valued Upper Divison Elective classes opened up.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My new class? Society and Aging.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am elated. Now, this is in my wheelhouse. I know all about aging. I am most likely the oldest person in the class. Most of the students (according to their online introductions), are rehabilitation therapy majors, or medical professionals. There are one or two others taking the class for their Upper Division Elective class. If this first week is any indication, I am going to love this class. I am practically living it!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I promised in my last (but brief) post that I would do a better job of keeping in touch. It is my goal to post more frequently. Everyone needs goals. Mine this week include posting more on the blog, consuming fewer Diet Cokes, and keeping my family in clean underwear.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We do what we can, friends.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We do what we can.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/8849280528461917529/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2022/08/classes-have-started.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/8849280528461917529'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/8849280528461917529'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2022/08/classes-have-started.html' title='Classes Have Started! '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-6005896155883048774</id><published>2022-08-16T15:16:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2022-08-16T15:16:11.248-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It&#39;s Time Again</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;It&#39;s time.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#39;s time to get back to writing and posting on this little blog. I have unintentionally neglected it for such a long time.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I originally started it for selfish reasons. I was facing some challenges and needed an outlet. I needed to pontificate and ramble. I also needed to remind myself that life can still be beautiful despite the scary stuff we all face in life.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I admit I&#39;ve experienced burnout along the way. This past year, especially. I am trying to find my pace again and trying to focus on something other than my own fears and foibles. In other words, I need to find joy in places and situations that seem joyless.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Life is still challenging. There are issues that haven&#39;t magically disappeared into that place where all problems go to die. But it is time for me to find the delightful moments in life and encourage those of you who have struggled to do the same.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My delight might be different than your delight but at least we can all encourage one another. The world is too full of nastiness and spite.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am going to honor my promise to be more purposeful and deliberate in my days. AND to honor those goals I have set for myself. With God&#39;s help. Always with His help.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have you found yourself stuck in place?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/6005896155883048774/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2022/08/its-time-again.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/6005896155883048774'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/6005896155883048774'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2022/08/its-time-again.html' title='It&#39;s Time Again'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-8153830081426785891</id><published>2022-01-04T20:16:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2022-01-04T20:16:50.078-06:00</updated><title type='text'>A List (Catching Up!)</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;It&#39;s literally been a YEAR since I&#39;ve posted anything on the blog.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I started a few posts. They generally started with....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&quot;I&#39;ve not written anything in a while.&quot; That was about as far as I got. One of the goals I have for the year is to be more consistent with my writing. And to get back to some of the fun, lifestyle kinds of posts I used to do in the past.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I just need to be better organized with my life. And everybody said, Amen and amen. However, that is another topic for another post.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I thought I would use this post to catch up with all five of my readers (hi, mom) about the comings and goings of the past few months.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It has been a doozy! Instead of writing pages, and pages, and pages of what&#39;s been going down, I am going to implement my favorite tool in life. The List.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This, my friends, is The List.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;1. I did go back to college. I am still there. I survived my first semester and made the Dean&#39;s List. Classes start back next week. I am armed and ready with a new planner. I currently have only six classes to complete before I am finished with my Bachelor&#39;s degree.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;2. What am I going to do with that degree? I have no clue at this moment in time. Just thought I would put that out there just in case you asked.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. My parents and nephew had an awful car accident at the beginning of October.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;4. I tried to write about it and couldn&#39;t. All the feelings are still being felt. My nephew was in the hospital for weeks. And then rehab. My parents still are recovering from injuries they suffered.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;5. I went to Missouri and stayed for two weeks. It is awful to feel helpless. I still feel helpless.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;6. Everyone is doing better now. There are still challenges. Josiah is currently with his cousin. In a few weeks, both the boys are going to go to the farm. Chris needs some additional time to heal and to recover and my dad needs some help. Mom broke her arm and continues to deal with that injury. It looks like Josiah is the most likely candidate for cook and bottle washer.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;7. I hope the folks like peanut butter sandwiches and fish sticks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;8. My in-laws have also been in crisis. Last year, my mother-in-law develop some significant nerve and spine issues. She had surgery and has never completely regained strength. The Muffin has spent months going back and forth nearly every week to help her and his dad.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;9. There are many grand things about getting older. And then there are many hard things. One of those hard things is watching your parents age and go through difficulties.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;10. Princess the Cat is still fabulous.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;11. I have gained so much weight since moving to Indiana. Combined with that and the stress of the past few months, I started 2022 with a significant health crisis.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;12. Not to worry. I&#39;ve been here before. Unfortunately, recently, feeling poorly has been more of a daily norm. This has to stop. Do you ever feel like you are your own worse enemy?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;13. I recognize that I have challenges that other people don&#39;t. But I also have all the tools that living with chronic illness has given me. I know what to do. It&#39;s a matter of loving myself enough to do it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;14. Anybody relate?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;15. I guess we just need to start where we can and go on from there.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiVFwaATqMECIlaQ4R4azUelpGjsRgpYdECofPCGE2zELgaEwkbMrIg6KJYNLVth24ftsYUcCTuFQZe8HefS5dQp4-lIWfSgOKmrWbsi1uac1S0M4Q4LACsUkItL8gZp0TI0WSKPoWQpDFb_lGSWawQ4u0J5lLB_356WwDszTp9izxLqGqB1VAPSIA7hA=s590&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;382&quot; data-original-width=&quot;590&quot; height=&quot;143&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiVFwaATqMECIlaQ4R4azUelpGjsRgpYdECofPCGE2zELgaEwkbMrIg6KJYNLVth24ftsYUcCTuFQZe8HefS5dQp4-lIWfSgOKmrWbsi1uac1S0M4Q4LACsUkItL8gZp0TI0WSKPoWQpDFb_lGSWawQ4u0J5lLB_356WwDszTp9izxLqGqB1VAPSIA7hA=w221-h143&quot; width=&quot;221&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/8153830081426785891/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2022/01/a-list-catching-up.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/8153830081426785891'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/8153830081426785891'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2022/01/a-list-catching-up.html' title='A List (Catching Up!)'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEiVFwaATqMECIlaQ4R4azUelpGjsRgpYdECofPCGE2zELgaEwkbMrIg6KJYNLVth24ftsYUcCTuFQZe8HefS5dQp4-lIWfSgOKmrWbsi1uac1S0M4Q4LACsUkItL8gZp0TI0WSKPoWQpDFb_lGSWawQ4u0J5lLB_356WwDszTp9izxLqGqB1VAPSIA7hA=s72-w221-h143-c" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-5446475642671160074</id><published>2021-07-31T18:30:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2021-07-31T18:30:38.413-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Thrifty Finds Video (Not to be confused with Thrifty Finds a Video)</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Well. I&#39;ve finally succumbed to the peer pressure and showed some stuff I bought on line.&amp;nbsp; You know I love a good fleamarket/thrift store crawl.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this video I&#39;ve shared the stuff I&#39;ve acquired over the past few months. Some of it is furniture.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And long,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/lCemQ7a_6R0&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;lCemQ7a_6R0&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt; dangly earrings. One cannot forget the long, dangly earrings.&amp;nbsp;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At least I can&#39;t.&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/5446475642671160074/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/07/thrifty-finds-video-not-to-be-confused.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/5446475642671160074'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/5446475642671160074'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/07/thrifty-finds-video-not-to-be-confused.html' title='Thrifty Finds Video (Not to be confused with Thrifty Finds a Video)'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/lCemQ7a_6R0/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-2709955770490674449</id><published>2021-07-27T18:55:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2021-07-27T19:31:00.058-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I&#39;m 49. And I&#39;m Going Back to College</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIZdykoynyNs9RYOZ76CrnwQ61DcbTlOvLqROAJuY1HsuNfMRu_WB8EcBN8-kdJ9hywwUfb1PmGzkjQH15Vk8sYtVhwu1m_B_hcQ55lA3Lf9fLlzoLK86hViBQKksNOxXCccqPyK4B0jg6/s624/Bored-in-the-Classroom-Vintage-How-To-Learn-Danish-When-Youve-Got-Other-Shit-To-Do-Scandinavia-Standard.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;351&quot; data-original-width=&quot;624&quot; height=&quot;360&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIZdykoynyNs9RYOZ76CrnwQ61DcbTlOvLqROAJuY1HsuNfMRu_WB8EcBN8-kdJ9hywwUfb1PmGzkjQH15Vk8sYtVhwu1m_B_hcQ55lA3Lf9fLlzoLK86hViBQKksNOxXCccqPyK4B0jg6/w640-h360/Bored-in-the-Classroom-Vintage-How-To-Learn-Danish-When-Youve-Got-Other-Shit-To-Do-Scandinavia-Standard.jpg&quot; width=&quot;640&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;I know!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;ve neglected my little blog terribly.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stuff. That&#39;s all I can say about it all.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;ve had stuff.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;AND I continue to have stuff. Some of the same stuff and some new stuff.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;AND I know you clicked here because you are curious about the title of this post. AND it&#39;s all true.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am going back to school. Long story short. At least, I will attempt to keep this long story short. Those who have followed me a while know that I can be a bit wordy (just a bit).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;WAAAY back in 1996, I went back to school. For the first time. Actually, I went to Beauty School directly out of High School. So I don&#39;t know if I need to count Beauty School as the first time....?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But...you know what I mean. One month into my first semester in college I had a MASSIVE car wreck. Which I emphasize the life-changing event by using ALL CAPS. It was that major. I continued classes at home when I was sent home from the hospital. I was taking 9 credit hours and my college agreed to let me continue them correspondence over the next semester. Keep in mind that online classes just weren&#39;t a thing back in 1996.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I went back the next Fall Semester with 9 hours under my belt, in addition to a handy-dandy cane and major PTSD. I basically went to college for the next 4 years. In that time, I went into Heart Failure, was diagnosed with diabetes and cardiomyopathy, graduated with an Associates Degree, went on to teacher&#39;s college, taught in a Christian private school 40 hours a week, had a miscarriage and adopted a baby boy.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I ended 2001 with a new baby and just a few credits away from my Bachelor&#39;s Degree.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Can I tell you I was tired? 2001 was a rough year for so many reasons. I had a miscarriage in August. Exactly a month later 9/11 happened. We adopted Josiah in November. I decided to stay home with my baby boy and take a little time off.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That time off turned into nearly 20 years.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don&#39;t regret staying home with that brown-eyed baby boy. However, I have always dreamed about going back and finishing my degree. I knew I couldn&#39;t teach again. At least, I couldn&#39;t teach little kids. Which is tough when your degree field is in Early Childhood Education.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;ve looked into going back before. Sometime when Josiah was 10-11, I thought I would check it out. But frankly, our little family was too stretched in other ways. We needed me to be at home and we needed me to be healthy.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This year, however, this blessed year with all of its stresses and anxieties gave me permission to be just a tad bit selfish.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I contacted our local state university and sent them my transcripts. I had more than enough credits to fit nicely into one of their programs. I got the money I needed. And yesterday morning, I purchased my books.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have about a year until I graduate.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What&#39;s my degree in?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I really couldn&#39;t tell you.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It has Career Education in the title and my minor is in Education.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do I think that you need a college degree to be successful and happy in life? Absolutely not.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But do I believe in going after a goal and finishing the course? Absolutely.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am 49 years old. Many of those other dreams and goals won&#39;t be fulfilled in my life and I&#39;ve had to come to terms with that. But, wow! It does feel good to have one more thing checked off that list.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And really. I&#39;m a nerd. I loved college. All the 4200 years I went. Though this time it will be online. Do I even know how to do that?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;m 49. I&#39;ll figure it out.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZtVjU8dn_xlkMzlr_AB9GIvaCyhwNQf1ZPlFEjyxvAuHJhajrdaBDTMxvtUoDPvTF6uRbw5AHdq5hX938TOlbZLtfJ9O-ahxgkOqjsOvi8YKJq33Whobko-AJVzaDafuesnuObNcZXy23/s590/Picture11+%25281%2529.png&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;382&quot; data-original-width=&quot;590&quot; height=&quot;153&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZtVjU8dn_xlkMzlr_AB9GIvaCyhwNQf1ZPlFEjyxvAuHJhajrdaBDTMxvtUoDPvTF6uRbw5AHdq5hX938TOlbZLtfJ9O-ahxgkOqjsOvi8YKJq33Whobko-AJVzaDafuesnuObNcZXy23/w237-h153/Picture11+%25281%2529.png&quot; width=&quot;237&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/2709955770490674449/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/07/im-49-and-im-going-back-to-college.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/2709955770490674449'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/2709955770490674449'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/07/im-49-and-im-going-back-to-college.html' title='I&#39;m 49. And I&#39;m Going Back to College'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIZdykoynyNs9RYOZ76CrnwQ61DcbTlOvLqROAJuY1HsuNfMRu_WB8EcBN8-kdJ9hywwUfb1PmGzkjQH15Vk8sYtVhwu1m_B_hcQ55lA3Lf9fLlzoLK86hViBQKksNOxXCccqPyK4B0jg6/s72-w640-h360-c/Bored-in-the-Classroom-Vintage-How-To-Learn-Danish-When-Youve-Got-Other-Shit-To-Do-Scandinavia-Standard.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-7422431903270935855</id><published>2021-05-12T11:18:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2021-05-12T11:18:17.783-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Good Morning! </title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Good morning, friends.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I truly intended on posting a link to a Bible Ladies Brunch Video this morning. I do have one that already went up last week that I didn&#39;t link to on the blog. AND I have my Mother&#39;s Day message that I planned on sharing this week. BUT...the interwebs.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I got up this morning and the video had only uploaded to 47% because my computer restarted overnight.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I think you will enjoy the message. At least, I hope you do. I promise to share as soon as the dastardly interwebs cooperates.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For now...shew! I have not posted a blip on the blog in quite some time. I went to see my parents for 3 weeks in April. The boy is still out there helping his Papa with spring chores. I have been quite neglectful in life updates and words of wisdom as of late.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you ever just have those seasons of life where you just need a minute to collect your thoughts? And by minute, I mean an extended period of time. I have so many things I need to take control of AND plan for.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For one, I am probably going to go back to school. I have a few goals and dreams that I need to take charge of. I am still in the preparation stages. I still need to locate all my transcripts and find ways to finance all those hopes and dreams.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have a few other things in the works. You will hear more about them. SOON.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have a beautiful day!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/7422431903270935855/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/05/good-morning.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/7422431903270935855'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/7422431903270935855'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/05/good-morning.html' title='Good Morning! '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-18526250103201887</id><published>2021-03-13T11:00:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2021-03-13T11:00:07.038-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch"/><title type='text'>The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series - 3 Things </title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Hey friends.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This week has been particularly a rough one. I won&#39;t go into all the details. But let&#39;s just say I&#39;ve needed all the advice I give in this video.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was talking to my mom on the phone earlier. She reminded me how life does us. We think we have things figured out and then WHAM! We are reminded that we know nothing at all and the best course of action would be to crawl back into bed and start over. That last bit was my contribution to the conversation.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In any event, I hope this conversation we have challenges something inside of all of us and we are reminded that we need to trust God with the details and give Him our doubts.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You might notice I am wearing the same outfit as last week. I did film them a few days apart. I just was feeling the cream and roses. You will be comforted to know that I might have looked put together on top, but underneath I had on the stretchiest of stretchy pants and my rattiest house slippers.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We do what we can.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Be blessed and encouraged this week.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/SvEof6GkOKU&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;SvEof6GkOKU&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/18526250103201887/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/03/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning_13.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/18526250103201887'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/18526250103201887'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/03/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning_13.html' title='The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series - 3 Things '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://img.youtube.com/vi/SvEof6GkOKU/default.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-4390215295142646810</id><published>2021-03-03T17:33:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2021-03-03T17:33:51.199-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch"/><title type='text'>The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series - Ugly </title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Good morning!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You might have noticed I didn&#39;t post a Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch video last week. Then again, it probably didn&#39;t even cross your mind.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSrawiEKd7yUCTCBnBzCLpM-s3misPM6o4P9jHyijqJN_XU4G1fp7nQRlUGjuJtzn7RnfstIGdUMNN1OeH06ebfYn007GdQzJFhCfFmquxtPwackvDNImh4ZeJivZ4I8IDEgmenYEX0kKg/s784/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo+%25281%2529.png&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;295&quot; data-original-width=&quot;784&quot; height=&quot;201&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSrawiEKd7yUCTCBnBzCLpM-s3misPM6o4P9jHyijqJN_XU4G1fp7nQRlUGjuJtzn7RnfstIGdUMNN1OeH06ebfYn007GdQzJFhCfFmquxtPwackvDNImh4ZeJivZ4I8IDEgmenYEX0kKg/w536-h201/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo+%25281%2529.png&quot; width=&quot;536&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The truth is that I did create a video for last week. I just didn&#39;t post it. I really wasn&#39;t that happy with it.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Not that this week&#39;s video is stellar in any way. It just is something that I probably needed to post last week.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Today we are talking about &quot;ugly.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ugly words.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And I am sure you all have noticed a plethora of ugly lately. Folks just can&#39;t seem to keep it in...whether we all need to hear it or not.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have certainly been guilty of spewing a bit of ugly myself.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I usually have a rough outline when I record these videos. Because me ranting aimlessly for 30 minutes is a complete waste of time.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this video, however, I ran a little fast and loose. You will probably be able to tell. l repeated myself fairly often. In my defense, I was interrupted more than a few times. I just cut out those conversations I had with my family.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Nobody wouldn&#39;t have been interested in where I keep my Miracle Whip or why The Muffin&#39;s prescriptions weren&#39;t ready at The Walmarts. But if I do seem distracted you will understand why.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have also noticed I tend to lean towards the video camera an awful lot. I think it&#39;s because I can&#39;t see and for some reason that will help you see me better. Unfortunately, the closer I get to the camera the clearer you can see the &quot;bat in my cave.&quot; I have one of those noses. You could probably see up clear to my brain under perfect circumstances.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But enough about my nose buggers and squinty eyes. I do hope I am able to encourage all of us to use our words with care.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hope you enjoy. Below the video are Scriptures that pertain to our subject today. Don&#39;t be ugly!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/5TGd7gnAQOc&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;5TGd7gnAQOc&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As promised, here are some Scriptures that talk about using our words.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  40.  
  41. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;1. Proverbs 11:9 “Evil words destroy one’s friends; wise
  42. discernment rescues the godly.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  43.  
  44. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  45.  
  46. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;2. Proverbs 15:4 “Gentle words bring life and health; a
  47. deceitful tongue crushes the spirit.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  48.  
  49. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  50.  
  51. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;3. Proverbs 16:24 “Kind words are like honey – sweet to the
  52. soul and healthy for the body.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  53.  
  54. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  55.  
  56. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;4. Proverbs 18:21 “Death and life are in the power of the
  57. tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  58.  
  59. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  60.  
  61. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;5. Proverbs 18:4 “A person’s words can be life-giving water;
  62. words of true wisdom are as refreshing as a bubbling brook.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  63.  
  64. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  65.  
  66. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;6. Proverbs 12:18 “There is one who speaks rashly like he
  67. thrusts of a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  68.  
  69. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  70.  
  71. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;7. Proverbs 25:18 “Telling lies about others is as harmful
  72. as hitting them with an ax, wounding them with a sword, or shooting them with a
  73. sharp arrow.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  74.  
  75. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  76.  
  77. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;8. Luke 6:43-45 “For there is no good tree which produces
  78. bad fruit, nor, on the other hand, a bad tree which produces good fruit. For
  79. each tree is known by its own fruit. For men do not gather figs from thorns,
  80. nor do they pick grapes from a briar bush. The good man out of the good
  81. treasure of his heart brings forth what is good; and the evil man out of the
  82. evil treasure brings forth what is evil; for his mouth speaks from that which
  83. fills his heart.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  84.  
  85. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  86.  
  87. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;9. Proverbs 21:23 “Whosoever keeps his mouth and his tongue
  88. keeps himself out of trouble.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  89.  
  90. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  91.  
  92. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;10. James 3:5 “In the same way, the tongue is a small thing
  93. that makes grand speeches. But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  94.  
  95. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  96.  
  97. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;11. James 1:26 “If you claim to be religious but don’t
  98. control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  99.  
  100. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  101.  
  102. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;12. Proverbs 17:18 “Even a fool who keeps silent is
  103. considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  104.  
  105. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  106.  
  107. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;13. Titus 3:2 “To speak evil&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;
  108. &lt;/span&gt;of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect
  109. courtesy to all people.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  110.  
  111. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  112.  
  113. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;14. Psalm 34:13 “Keep your tongue from evil and your lips
  114. from speaking deceit.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  115.  
  116. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  117.  
  118. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;15. Ephesians 4:19 “Let no corrupting talk come out of your
  119. mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it
  120. may give grace to those who hear.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/4390215295142646810/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/03/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/4390215295142646810'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/4390215295142646810'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/03/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning.html' title='The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series - Ugly '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSrawiEKd7yUCTCBnBzCLpM-s3misPM6o4P9jHyijqJN_XU4G1fp7nQRlUGjuJtzn7RnfstIGdUMNN1OeH06ebfYn007GdQzJFhCfFmquxtPwackvDNImh4ZeJivZ4I8IDEgmenYEX0kKg/s72-w536-h201-c/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo+%25281%2529.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-7001858915896063644</id><published>2021-02-24T16:05:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2021-02-24T16:05:38.944-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Confessions of a 10 pound Loser"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="weight loss"/><title type='text'>Confessions of a 10 Pound Loser - The Beginning</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;I&#39;m starting a new weight loss journey.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Actually, scratch that. I&#39;ve been on a weight loss &quot;journey&quot; for years. What I am starting is going to be more of a public sharing of the ups and downs of my experiences.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My &quot;journey&quot; has had its good days and bad days. I&#39;ve had more bad that good. I have all kinds of excuses.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My hormones.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My non-existent metabolism.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;White Castle.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Quarantine.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The truth is that our troubles and challenges are far more nuanced and complicated than we understand.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;ve been fairly transparent about a few things in my life. Infertility. Chronic Illness. My fondness for murder mysteries and dislike of potty talk.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am not quite as chatty about my weight struggles. Mostly because I am so disappointed in myself. And I certainly don&#39;t feel good in my current body.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;ve been down this road before. I have been successful at weight loss. I have also been successful at losing and gaining the same 10 pounds a thousand times in my adult years.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My mom encouraged me to talk more about what I know. What I don&#39;t know. How I&#39;m doing. What I&#39;m not doing. About weight loss, at least. She thought my own experiences would be encouraging for someone else. She also gave me the idea of what to call this particular series.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&quot;Confessions of a 10 pound Loser&quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My mom is kind of awesome at jingles and catchy titles.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My idea would have been more like &quot;My Struggles with Losing Weight While Telling You All The Things You Wish You Never Asked.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kind of hard to make a interesting graphic with that one.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So. Here I go. We&#39;ll talk more later.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/7001858915896063644/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/02/confessions-of-10-pound-loser-beginning.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/7001858915896063644'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/7001858915896063644'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/02/confessions-of-10-pound-loser-beginning.html' title='Confessions of a 10 Pound Loser - The Beginning'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-52927216427105002</id><published>2021-02-17T08:58:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2021-02-17T08:58:24.283-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch"/><title type='text'>The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life - Sacrifice </title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;Good morning!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;I have a special video for you today.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;Sometimes love hurts.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;I think that&#39;s a song from somewhere.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCoO6ezahbCjniT1kk1agOjfQGe8GpbAR8TfaEUz7izPgSUR-w8cpC7Iu2aoRt6qky6i6pOY_eDwCZ5uIKVWVw2sQpzgcewVycFSYJBOLF9U_dHm1iD-NmBEv4VIicmGaO5Hl87mEMAN7D/s784/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;295&quot; data-original-width=&quot;784&quot; height=&quot;207&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCoO6ezahbCjniT1kk1agOjfQGe8GpbAR8TfaEUz7izPgSUR-w8cpC7Iu2aoRt6qky6i6pOY_eDwCZ5uIKVWVw2sQpzgcewVycFSYJBOLF9U_dHm1iD-NmBEv4VIicmGaO5Hl87mEMAN7D/w552-h207/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; width=&quot;552&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;Sometimes love requires us to move beyond our own comforts and desires. It requires us to give up precious time, possessions, wants...etc. It requires us to sacrifice.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;We as Christians understand that because God sent His son as a sacrifice we now have freedom, peace, joy, and everlasting life.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;The dictionary describes sacrifice as &quot;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; color: #303336; font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;destruction or surrender of something for the sake of something else.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;Destruction sounds kind of ominous...so we will go with surrender. What have we surrendered for the sake of someone else?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;What have we sacrificed for the sake of another?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white; font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;To live a beautiful life requires us to think beyond ourselves. Even when it comes at a cost.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;Today I am talking with Joann. I think you will find her story touching. Especially, for those who are dealing with similar&amp;nbsp;challenges in your own life.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;Sacrifice will probably hurt...but it can still be a beautiful thing.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;You can print off the scripture Joann talked about in the video by clicking &lt;a href=&quot;https://drive.google.com/file/d/15hYfxcW7g7PFLWkbvPtdWrRXxGCBhl-Z/view?usp=sharing&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;this lin&lt;/a&gt;k or the picture below.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; 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letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;Hope you are encouraged.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;background-color: white;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/r4uKXQDHN-c&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;r4uKXQDHN-c&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #303336; font-family: verdana;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-variant-ligatures: no-common-ligatures; letter-spacing: 0.2px;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/52927216427105002/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/02/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning_17.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/52927216427105002'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/52927216427105002'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/02/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning_17.html' title='The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life - Sacrifice '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiCoO6ezahbCjniT1kk1agOjfQGe8GpbAR8TfaEUz7izPgSUR-w8cpC7Iu2aoRt6qky6i6pOY_eDwCZ5uIKVWVw2sQpzgcewVycFSYJBOLF9U_dHm1iD-NmBEv4VIicmGaO5Hl87mEMAN7D/s72-w552-h207-c/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-3656442783983684215</id><published>2021-02-10T08:00:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2021-02-15T10:32:10.083-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch"/><title type='text'>The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life - Soul Care </title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;I understand.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;m not really good at taking care of myself. For one, I feel guilty. Should I take precious time for myself when I need to be devoting it to something &quot;far more important?&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The result of that mindset can be damaging. Not only to me, but to those around me.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs3vlu0mb0jcnuepO3RMQi0M4xgVVxYQvoSnDjpgW0ipOitfv53-cC7kpb5L1F1S0b882QKQO6opK_LkZZarB5gJip5aE-CObizEFu1kCzhcpT-DmUnCamoMTAwtpoyDqwiPFb_COuyG0g/s784/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;295&quot; data-original-width=&quot;784&quot; height=&quot;179&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs3vlu0mb0jcnuepO3RMQi0M4xgVVxYQvoSnDjpgW0ipOitfv53-cC7kpb5L1F1S0b882QKQO6opK_LkZZarB5gJip5aE-CObizEFu1kCzhcpT-DmUnCamoMTAwtpoyDqwiPFb_COuyG0g/w477-h179/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; width=&quot;477&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That is why today we are talking about &quot;Soul Care&quot; in The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch. We are currently going through a series &quot;Learning to Live a Beautiful Life.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Soul Care needs to be a part of our plan.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this video, I not only talk about planning for daily prayer and devotion, but I also talking about other nourishing habits that keep us active and able to do what God has called us to do.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I hope you enjoy the video. What are something of the things you do on a daily basis to care for yourself and your soul?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/zdU9QVrn56o&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;zdU9QVrn56o&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By the way, I mentioned in the video that I would share my current &quot;chair exercise&quot; routine video. It&#39;s under 10 minutes. WE can do this!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/xRI9obPG_aE&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;xRI9obPG_aE&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/3656442783983684215/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/02/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/3656442783983684215'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/3656442783983684215'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/02/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning.html' title='The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life - Soul Care '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs3vlu0mb0jcnuepO3RMQi0M4xgVVxYQvoSnDjpgW0ipOitfv53-cC7kpb5L1F1S0b882QKQO6opK_LkZZarB5gJip5aE-CObizEFu1kCzhcpT-DmUnCamoMTAwtpoyDqwiPFb_COuyG0g/s72-w477-h179-c/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-536253427179059925</id><published>2021-02-03T08:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2021-02-03T08:00:08.713-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch"/><title type='text'>The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Identity - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series </title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Welcome to another Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch post.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIvCmIGR8YWbanOZpe1YdsMKWrqSUGNL6YEvSl9WGXQI53NNWD7e7s3ZwUm7S3i-whQmjEFwH85t7yqikdSjj-gHOtEm5mkTG_3YHdseuhrb_fmnnxf8GYvyLr25u7vvcaZfAtTKRj2_fX/s500/White+with+Flower+Icon+Floral+Logo.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;500&quot; data-original-width=&quot;500&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIvCmIGR8YWbanOZpe1YdsMKWrqSUGNL6YEvSl9WGXQI53NNWD7e7s3ZwUm7S3i-whQmjEFwH85t7yqikdSjj-gHOtEm5mkTG_3YHdseuhrb_fmnnxf8GYvyLr25u7vvcaZfAtTKRj2_fX/w400-h400/White+with+Flower+Icon+Floral+Logo.png&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Today we are going to talk about Identity.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I haven&#39;t always been so immune to &quot;unconstructive&quot; criticism. And, trust me, I&#39;ve had plenty of people feel like they could speak vileness into my life.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Those people were undoubtedly hurting and confused about their own identities. We can&#39;t love others if we don&#39;t love ourselves first.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Identity we are speaking about today must not be confused with the humanistic notion of self-esteem. It cannot be tied up in exterior or physical characteristics. It can&#39;t be something I muster up every morning because I tell myself that I&#39;m superwoman and capable of anything I put my mind to. It can&#39;t be wound up in another&#39;s opinion of my appearance, social graces, intelligence, general personality or tacky statement earrings.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My (and our) Identity must come from Someone eternal. Someone who is never-changing. Someone who cannot lie. Someone whose own prejudices and failings won&#39;t cloud His picture of me.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I hope I conveyed these thoughts in the video below. I hope that you take this video to heart. As a society, we MUST not be a part of small-humanistic thinking.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;God says I am LOVED.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;God says that I am CHOSEN. That I am ACCEPTED. That I am VALUABLE.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am made in HIS image.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And so are you.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVLm6zuj5Px13stpLSgOsSYnf8hwegNpH-bqvNI2tCcfJU5QeppH82MN5j401mF5KCX7ggr4OxsiTlj6ITv4d6FBPdweLTLlz3zFqfn9zEvfppeH-u4BCmNPAIN8D7VuV5851eHE5OcN-h/s784/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;295&quot; data-original-width=&quot;784&quot; height=&quot;150&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVLm6zuj5Px13stpLSgOsSYnf8hwegNpH-bqvNI2tCcfJU5QeppH82MN5j401mF5KCX7ggr4OxsiTlj6ITv4d6FBPdweLTLlz3zFqfn9zEvfppeH-u4BCmNPAIN8D7VuV5851eHE5OcN-h/w400-h150/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you haven&#39;t already take some time and watch the other videos in our &quot;Learning to Live a Beautiful Life&quot; series.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I hope you are blessed today.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/hw94Ccwe-1M&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;hw94Ccwe-1M&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/536253427179059925/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/02/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-identity.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/536253427179059925'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/536253427179059925'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/02/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-identity.html' title='The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Identity - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIvCmIGR8YWbanOZpe1YdsMKWrqSUGNL6YEvSl9WGXQI53NNWD7e7s3ZwUm7S3i-whQmjEFwH85t7yqikdSjj-gHOtEm5mkTG_3YHdseuhrb_fmnnxf8GYvyLr25u7vvcaZfAtTKRj2_fX/s72-w400-h400-c/White+with+Flower+Icon+Floral+Logo.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-5753384681873785324</id><published>2021-01-28T14:56:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2021-01-28T14:56:59.595-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Cat Love</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;I know!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Two posts in a row. There must be some sort of extra juju in my morning coffee.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Actually, the electrician is here again today and I need to appear busy. I don&#39;t want to for him to think I sit around all day long reading murder mysteries and binge watch Grey&#39;s Anatomy.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Say what?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The work crew from the energy company is still here. Yesterday, they secured the gigantic pole they installed next to the Parsonage with a couple of bungie chords and a few enormous French knots (poorly done French knots). It looked frightening. This morning they gathered around looking up at it like it had just appeared overnight. One guy even left the doors on his truck open like he was prepared for a quick getaway.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Princess and I were concerned.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I shared this picture on my FB page.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3NktvUvbiSKQMpkJznhBnD8T6N3hrYR_yXk2y3kuU0CZJu7uKI_hFENoQ-9pArwChgm3mc2aWpI2wg4Zhe-3mr1eOtQRb0w_DIytccTDU6nNLBHPvcH2G3imLcSPrsIp585sq3yUcVEWb/s1080/144344947_10226240133208860_7158070993418742511_o.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;810&quot; data-original-width=&quot;1080&quot; height=&quot;300&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3NktvUvbiSKQMpkJznhBnD8T6N3hrYR_yXk2y3kuU0CZJu7uKI_hFENoQ-9pArwChgm3mc2aWpI2wg4Zhe-3mr1eOtQRb0w_DIytccTDU6nNLBHPvcH2G3imLcSPrsIp585sq3yUcVEWb/w400-h300/144344947_10226240133208860_7158070993418742511_o.jpg&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;Her favorite napping place is now my chest.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#39;s a good thing I love her.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7Z8cKh0uv4nz2zCSEUZR_pJ-X_kRCURW3kKC-pLoTXLWpWVGE9aHo4kF-kv8wBhoQPMtg2YbeSeICdTpod7VcJUZk5lnrVS-a-CeoYutx8e3rQ20Wmp-iLjPVppQwijLfnHkSQYkqvp2U/s590/Picture11+%25281%2529.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;382&quot; data-original-width=&quot;590&quot; height=&quot;129&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7Z8cKh0uv4nz2zCSEUZR_pJ-X_kRCURW3kKC-pLoTXLWpWVGE9aHo4kF-kv8wBhoQPMtg2YbeSeICdTpod7VcJUZk5lnrVS-a-CeoYutx8e3rQ20Wmp-iLjPVppQwijLfnHkSQYkqvp2U/w200-h129/Picture11+%25281%2529.png&quot; width=&quot;200&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/5753384681873785324/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/cat-love.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/5753384681873785324'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/5753384681873785324'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/cat-love.html' title='Cat Love'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3NktvUvbiSKQMpkJznhBnD8T6N3hrYR_yXk2y3kuU0CZJu7uKI_hFENoQ-9pArwChgm3mc2aWpI2wg4Zhe-3mr1eOtQRb0w_DIytccTDU6nNLBHPvcH2G3imLcSPrsIp585sq3yUcVEWb/s72-w400-h300-c/144344947_10226240133208860_7158070993418742511_o.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-3823380511468185179</id><published>2021-01-27T09:02:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2021-01-27T09:02:46.877-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="reflections"/><title type='text'>Expectations</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Today the Parsonage is getting plugged in. At least, MORE plugged in.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;An electrician is here installing and repairing electrical outlets. The Parsonage is old. I&#39;m not sure how old, but let&#39;s just say that the master bedroom has ONE electrical outlet.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ONE.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We have cords running everywhere. Which, of course, is not safe.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I&#39;m perched here on the couch trying to look purposeful and occupied. I even heated up some leftover stir fry for breakfast so I wouldn&#39;t dirty up my very clean kitchen.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What&#39;s more is that the power company has loads of worker bees in the church parking lot. They have been installing power poles all over town and have basically used the parking lot as home base. Our front window has provided quite the view.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Princess the Cat is beside herself today. All the activity has put her on high alert. She keeps looking at me as though I am supposed to keep all of this chaos in line. She is a Siamese. They have high expectations.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Speaking of expectations. I think sometimes we set ours too high. We have an idea in our mind about how things should work.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;People need to act a certain way.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A circumstance should happen this way.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Life just plain needs to look a certain way.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am not for a minute about to suggest you shouldn&#39;t hold the people in your life to some sort of standard. Abuse is never okay. And plain courtesy and consideration is necessary for healthy relationships.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#39;s just that sometimes life drops little &quot;surprises&quot; on us. Or we have unrealistic views of what should be.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would say that marriage is probably the hardest on our expectations. We expect the fairy tale. The magic. Life is not so magical when the bills aren&#39;t paid, a spouse is sick, and the looks of love become more looks of exasperation.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My husband never acts like I think he should. He wants to talk when I want to stay silent. He wants a night out when I would just as soon have a night in. Sometimes he doesn&#39;t say the right thing. Or notice when I need help. I think he should be able to read my mind and I&#39;m offended when he doesn&#39;t.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our first year of marriage was rough. A family tragedy occurred roughly around the same time as our wedding. And though I felt like I handled it fairly well, I still was traumatized to the point that I stuffed a whole lot of feelings down.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I was weighed down with indecision and insecurity.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Plus, The Studly Muffin was a whole lot different than me. My laid-back tendencies annoyed and frustrated him. I couldn&#39;t figure out why he couldn&#39;t just let me be. He just needed to chill out.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My friends. Little did I know that I would need his intensity and energy in my life. I would need his never failing loyalty. He would need my calmness and positivity.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What a mess we make of things...just by living vicariously through expectation. We don&#39;t appreciate the beauty and blessings right in front of us. We are too busy trying to mold life into our own vision of happiness.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;By the way, the electrician just popped in and apologized in advance for the crazy noises he is about to create. Princess the cat has disappeared into Josiah&#39;s bedroom to hide.&amp;nbsp; She has decided that all this activity is too much for her today.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don&#39;t blame her. I&#39;m thinking a second cup of coffee might be in order.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtRdMvOMTe2Grp2hpyu9eqN-g9wmUr2HKE1gLXYSFfGd2CM5RlrmKLNJRxuAvekfLJaBg733YjZZc-C59ZUTzPUw4lB5cM5Yx1JVHb8TiCeKKwL-7V4srUQvSlOXyhkOivO3jkTEsIplHd/s590/Picture11+%25281%2529.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;382&quot; data-original-width=&quot;590&quot; height=&quot;129&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtRdMvOMTe2Grp2hpyu9eqN-g9wmUr2HKE1gLXYSFfGd2CM5RlrmKLNJRxuAvekfLJaBg733YjZZc-C59ZUTzPUw4lB5cM5Yx1JVHb8TiCeKKwL-7V4srUQvSlOXyhkOivO3jkTEsIplHd/w200-h129/Picture11+%25281%2529.png&quot; width=&quot;200&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/3823380511468185179/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/expectations.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/3823380511468185179'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/3823380511468185179'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/expectations.html' title='Expectations'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtRdMvOMTe2Grp2hpyu9eqN-g9wmUr2HKE1gLXYSFfGd2CM5RlrmKLNJRxuAvekfLJaBg733YjZZc-C59ZUTzPUw4lB5cM5Yx1JVHb8TiCeKKwL-7V4srUQvSlOXyhkOivO3jkTEsIplHd/s72-w200-h129-c/Picture11+%25281%2529.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-589138920976720965</id><published>2021-01-26T23:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2021-01-26T23:00:06.832-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch"/><title type='text'>The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life- Sorrow - An Interview with Debbie</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;I have something special for you today.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI1hRnqemP-ja2uEvwn8aDhgdTJnAYFT0UUOy2wT7gfI_UobxrPbMTGLjkecQqMeA_Vn540HYzpM0M7fSBsny6O-eeop9VfgO-iXglsGQOEGBOnMgVHYRSEr9qcQ1nzfGQM5zknYaWauqe/s784/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;295&quot; data-original-width=&quot;784&quot; height=&quot;150&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI1hRnqemP-ja2uEvwn8aDhgdTJnAYFT0UUOy2wT7gfI_UobxrPbMTGLjkecQqMeA_Vn540HYzpM0M7fSBsny6O-eeop9VfgO-iXglsGQOEGBOnMgVHYRSEr9qcQ1nzfGQM5zknYaWauqe/w400-h150/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This might be a tough interview&amp;nbsp; to watch. But, I felt it was so important to talk about trusting God through our sorrows AND learning to life a beautiful life DESPITE of heartache.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I am talking with Debbie today. We actually filmed this interview before Thanksgiving of 2020. I had already had in my heart the &quot;Learning to Life a Beautiful Life&quot; series we are going through now.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLgMW1bH4e2OyF4kEVHzgyqZcRUTZNqGKCe37cBqBhUy2a6RoO_ZmiN4NSIh4xVaElHTgaOydZ2mZVLGrDvvYexGnPfEZYi_3xsmHEYevDV47tdbDbYdH9WRg4YaSFjwbNRvBHN6cs0yyi/s500/White+with+Flower+Icon+Floral+Logo.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;500&quot; data-original-width=&quot;500&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLgMW1bH4e2OyF4kEVHzgyqZcRUTZNqGKCe37cBqBhUy2a6RoO_ZmiN4NSIh4xVaElHTgaOydZ2mZVLGrDvvYexGnPfEZYi_3xsmHEYevDV47tdbDbYdH9WRg4YaSFjwbNRvBHN6cs0yyi/w400-h400/White+with+Flower+Icon+Floral+Logo.png&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My hairstyle is old and I&#39;m rocking a pumpkin graphic tee and I look about 7 feet tall (and as wide) next to Debbie. I&#39;m only 5&#39;4, but Debbie is a tall 4&#39;11. She is, in fact, the same height at my momma.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Debbie is one our faithful Bible Ladies. She would join the rest of us every Wednesday morning at my house for brunch and the Word. She is also our piano player and church and (before Covid) our adult Sunday School at church.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In this video, Debbie tells of navigating the loss of a child. Every parents&#39; worst nightmare. Despite her loss, I have only known Debbie to be sunny, outgoing, and generous. I hope that her story encourages you.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As promised, I am sharing a &lt;a href=&quot;https://drive.google.com/file/d/1IxZT7YHQuBXcO3NRDosWcLAJ0qbhw47E/view?usp=sharing&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;printable for you&lt;/a&gt; with Debbie&#39;s favorite Scripture. I know! I told you NO PRINTABLES this series.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://drive.google.com/file/d/1IxZT7YHQuBXcO3NRDosWcLAJ0qbhw47E/view?usp=sharing&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;2000&quot; data-original-width=&quot;1428&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgx4UEGBpkytRyitcFsseo7wL48phK_aFx1GI3mQGNE4J7YhBnJ-UYA9zgUVwwKXzcMek4VMhZsoCUVUaERKw_25lH2iV7EDsZtafIt9zPwf3dkHBsvFA25EdQGFW27HfP8I0Rb_fUflA11/w285-h400/PH+4_13.png&quot; width=&quot;285&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Next week, we will be talking about Identity. Do you know who you are in Christ? How do you see yourself? Do you compare yourself with others?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For now, I know you will be blessed with our video today.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/nmg7jyCPhfY&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;nmg7jyCPhfY&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/589138920976720965/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning_26.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/589138920976720965'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/589138920976720965'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning_26.html' title='The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life- Sorrow - An Interview with Debbie'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhI1hRnqemP-ja2uEvwn8aDhgdTJnAYFT0UUOy2wT7gfI_UobxrPbMTGLjkecQqMeA_Vn540HYzpM0M7fSBsny6O-eeop9VfgO-iXglsGQOEGBOnMgVHYRSEr9qcQ1nzfGQM5zknYaWauqe/s72-w400-h150-c/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-913462024911850676</id><published>2021-01-16T11:06:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2021-01-26T21:04:57.925-06:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Learning to Live a Beautiful Life Series"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch"/><title type='text'>The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life - Gratitude</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;It&#39;s that time again.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Time for another round of The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqHcVHETevM0YGB9rQlCkYhwLuIiPaoTeBVEt_ufgoAl9vBRsTQUnTJReMgkNOsOGysp4VT1uvcux0bIjqBb7eFyWbqLP60_Jpm3Lokm2bf788dBKtNolQyLDQ6Hlj1s9Qs2pJdJ67fNXm/s500/White+with+Flower+Icon+Floral+Logo.png&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;500&quot; data-original-width=&quot;500&quot; height=&quot;320&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqHcVHETevM0YGB9rQlCkYhwLuIiPaoTeBVEt_ufgoAl9vBRsTQUnTJReMgkNOsOGysp4VT1uvcux0bIjqBb7eFyWbqLP60_Jpm3Lokm2bf788dBKtNolQyLDQ6Hlj1s9Qs2pJdJ67fNXm/s320/White+with+Flower+Icon+Floral+Logo.png&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;This time I keeping it simple. I am not going to be sharing a yummy brunch recipe with you nor am I going to have a bunch of printables available for your use.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;At least, not many. I might get a wild hair and create something late at night when I need something creative to focus my attention on.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Right now, I am just keeping one of my resolutions. I have a tendency to be a little bit &quot;extra.&quot; I need some time to be a little better to myself so I am giving myself permission to let some things go.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Anyhoo.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This series of The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch we are going to talk about how to live a beautiful life. This is something I have discussed, wrote about, and spoke about for years. I decided to create a simple series that can help all of us to be more mindful about living that beautiful life.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj03t5cOfYx3NgVSvoZBXuHvx7WstvSaBBZ-nQn86gHNtxg5MEYTE3G1ElkgDWsKy5M_Le6unqL-LTEMStJKQKsS62Y52_Y3P8bQ3snuZ7qL3QSot7_PNYKDr0QzTt7AjTfpUptY4Ow9PMH/s784/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;295&quot; data-original-width=&quot;784&quot; height=&quot;150&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj03t5cOfYx3NgVSvoZBXuHvx7WstvSaBBZ-nQn86gHNtxg5MEYTE3G1ElkgDWsKy5M_Le6unqL-LTEMStJKQKsS62Y52_Y3P8bQ3snuZ7qL3QSot7_PNYKDr0QzTt7AjTfpUptY4Ow9PMH/w400-h150/Pink+and+Yellow+Lemon+Illustration+Bridal+Shower+Facebook+Event+Cover+Photo.png&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Our first topic is Gratitude. I understand that this is a biggie. Many of you don&#39;t feel very grateful right now. I, myself, have a list of things that is causing me some anxiety.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;However, I completely believe it is the DISCIPLINE of gratitude that makes the difference. Sometimes you gotta &quot;fake it til you make it.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I promised in the video (which you can watch below) that I would provide some of my favorite Gratitude scriptures...appropriate for study and for plastering all over your house.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  121.  
  122. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with
  123. praise! Give thanks to him; bless his name! For the Lord is good; his steadfast
  124. love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations.” Ps. 100:4-5&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  125.  
  126. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  127.  
  128. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above,
  129. coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow
  130. due to change.” James 1:17&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  131.  
  132. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  133.  
  134. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by
  135. prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to
  136. God.&quot; Phil 4:6&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  137.  
  138. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  139.  
  140. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me,
  141. bless his holy name! Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his
  142. benefits, who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, who
  143. redeems your life from the pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy,
  144. who satisfies you with good so that your youth is renewed like the eagle&#39;s.”
  145. Ps. 103:1-5&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  146.  
  147. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  148.  
  149. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;The Lord is my strength and my shield; My heart trusts
  150. in Him, and I am helped; Therefore my heart exults, And with my song I shall
  151. thank Him.&quot; Ps. 28:7&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  152.  
  153. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  154.  
  155. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;I will praise the name of God with song, and shall
  156. magnify Him with thanksgiving.&quot; Ps. 69:30&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  157.  
  158. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  159.  
  160. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his
  161. steadfast love endures forever. Give thanks to the God of gods, for his
  162. steadfast love endures forever. Give thanks to the Lord of lords, for his
  163. steadfast love endures forever; to him who alone does great wonders, for his
  164. steadfast love endures forever; to him who by understanding made the heavens,
  165. for his steadfast love endures forever; ...&quot; Ps. 136:1-5&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  166.  
  167. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  168.  
  169. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that
  170. cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with
  171. reverence and awe, for our &quot;God is a consuming fire.&quot; Heb. 12:28-29&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  172.  
  173. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
  174.  
  175. &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;Amen! Praise and glory and wisdom and thanks and honor
  176. and power and strength be to our God for ever and ever. Amen!&quot; Rev. 7:12&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Another little note before you watch the video. The sound is ATROCIOUS. I think our external mic needs a little revival. I tried to fix it in editing, but it was just too far gone.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I didn&#39;t have time to film another go around. I hope you don&#39;t mind attempting to read my lips. I AM SO SORRY!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I promise I will fix it. For now, I hope you are encouraged.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;iframe allowfullscreen=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;BLOG_video_class&quot; height=&quot;266&quot; src=&quot;https://www.youtube.com/embed/wU20YP2VFfw&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; youtube-src-id=&quot;wU20YP2VFfw&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/913462024911850676/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/913462024911850676'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/913462024911850676'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/the-bible-ladies-brunch-bunch-learning.html' title='The Bible Ladies Brunch Bunch - Learning to Live a Beautiful Life - Gratitude'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqHcVHETevM0YGB9rQlCkYhwLuIiPaoTeBVEt_ufgoAl9vBRsTQUnTJReMgkNOsOGysp4VT1uvcux0bIjqBb7eFyWbqLP60_Jpm3Lokm2bf788dBKtNolQyLDQ6Hlj1s9Qs2pJdJ67fNXm/s72-c/White+with+Flower+Icon+Floral+Logo.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-8249732539669459434</id><published>2021-01-04T11:49:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2021-01-04T11:49:33.857-06:00</updated><title type='text'>New Year? </title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;New Year?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Just be aware that I am a tad bit wary of this new year 2021. After all, we started out 2020 with shiny sparkly dreams and hopes for a fantastic year.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I recognize I have been downright terrible with keeping up with the blog.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The truth is that I don&#39;t feel good.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Nothing serious. Just the usual troubles of living with chronic illness. I need to hunker down and start this year off with a nitty-gritty, back to the earth &quot;Be Good to Beke&quot; strategy. .&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have decided to approach this year with baby steps.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Getting back to my usual cauli-egg white scramble with garlic and turmeric breakfast.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Soaking in my Epsom salt bath every other night.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;No caffeine after 2pm. These late nights are rough on me.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Keeping track of my planner and my meals.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In short, all the things that keep me ticking.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I always enjoy making Resolutions for the New Year. I like to take a step back and look at things critically.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What am I not doing that I need to be?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What is my vision for a room, space, idea, or plan and how can I achieve that vision?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are there any habits or mental attitudes that are keeping me in an unhealthy space? What can I do to make the changes I need to get where I need to be?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Stay tuned. I&#39;m too skeptical to declare 2021 as my year. But it doesn&#39;t hurt to be hopeful.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: left;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7Z8cKh0uv4nz2zCSEUZR_pJ-X_kRCURW3kKC-pLoTXLWpWVGE9aHo4kF-kv8wBhoQPMtg2YbeSeICdTpod7VcJUZk5lnrVS-a-CeoYutx8e3rQ20Wmp-iLjPVppQwijLfnHkSQYkqvp2U/s590/Picture11+%25281%2529.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; data-original-height=&quot;382&quot; data-original-width=&quot;590&quot; height=&quot;129&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7Z8cKh0uv4nz2zCSEUZR_pJ-X_kRCURW3kKC-pLoTXLWpWVGE9aHo4kF-kv8wBhoQPMtg2YbeSeICdTpod7VcJUZk5lnrVS-a-CeoYutx8e3rQ20Wmp-iLjPVppQwijLfnHkSQYkqvp2U/w200-h129/Picture11+%25281%2529.png&quot; width=&quot;200&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/8249732539669459434/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/new-year.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/8249732539669459434'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/8249732539669459434'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2021/01/new-year.html' title='New Year? '/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7Z8cKh0uv4nz2zCSEUZR_pJ-X_kRCURW3kKC-pLoTXLWpWVGE9aHo4kF-kv8wBhoQPMtg2YbeSeICdTpod7VcJUZk5lnrVS-a-CeoYutx8e3rQ20Wmp-iLjPVppQwijLfnHkSQYkqvp2U/s72-w200-h129-c/Picture11+%25281%2529.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4325533499835826643.post-6021653615365826928</id><published>2020-11-10T13:21:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2020-11-10T13:21:59.811-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Just Be Nice</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;I&#39;m not feeling well today.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I missed one of my long-acting insulin doses a couple of nights ago and I&#39;ve had trouble stabilizing my blood sugars since.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Plus, like many, I am feeling just kind of unsettled and &quot;blah.&quot;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sometimes, living a beautiful life doesn&#39;t come easy. We have to work at the whole thing.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Frankly, I&#39;m not all that interested in working too hard. But, one of my super powers is that I don&#39;t like it when I feel unsettled and blah so I can&#39;t live there too long.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And as much I would like to UNLOAD on poor unsuspecting social media friends and acquaintances, I don&#39;t believe in pouring out that much venom and unhappiness into the world.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Social media can be a terrific thing. But it can also be harmful and toxic.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It is easy to fall into the pit of the misunderstood and disenfranchised. However, I firmly believe that nobody is responsible for my attitude but me and me alone.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are so. many. words. floating about the interwebs. Most of them are not so nice.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The real story is the majority of people I know aren&#39;t so committed to life on social media. They get up. They take care of their families. They try to be nice to people around them. They don&#39;t really stress about what some poor soul in another part of the country feels about them.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;They have bigger fish to fry. As do we all.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are many of us talking too much? Are we putting things out there that can&#39;t be retracted?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You bet your bippie. So this post is going to be short.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;You are loved.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We are a fortunate people.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;God has been so faithful to me and mine. That I will shout from the rooftops.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Just be nice. You have bigger fish to fry.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Amen and amen.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/feeds/6021653615365826928/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2020/11/just-be-nice.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/6021653615365826928'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4325533499835826643/posts/default/6021653615365826928'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://chargeforwhining.blogspot.com/2020/11/just-be-nice.html' title='Just Be Nice'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>

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