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  1. <?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7398534943842636175</id><updated>2024-03-13T13:48:45.877-07:00</updated><title type='text'>ArticleSpan</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://articlespan1.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/7398534943842636175/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://articlespan1.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Blogrid3rd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13540741843926877824</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>3</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7398534943842636175.post-3018749457982358091</id><published>2022-01-05T23:16:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2022-01-05T23:16:36.757-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Needs?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;What someone may find, that&#39;s if they were to step &lt;a href=&quot;https://thetechnicalblogs.com/&quot;&gt;back and reflect&lt;/a&gt; on their life, is that they are often out of touch with their needs. Or, perhaps, to be more specific, they are often out of touch with certain needs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This can mean that they will typically be aware of their &lt;a href=&quot;https://cbdmarketin.com/&quot;&gt;survival needs&lt;/a&gt; and even their intellectual needs, but that could be about as far as it will go. As for their emotional needs, then, these could generally be ignored.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#39;s Automatic&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Still, this doesn&#39;t mean that this is something that &lt;a href=&quot;https://bizpulse.org/&quot;&gt;they will&lt;/a&gt; consciously choose to do. They are then not going to think, &#39;right, I&#39;m going to ignore my emotional needs now&#39;, as this is likely to be something that they won&#39;t even be aware of.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Consequently, a number of their needs will be overlooked and this is going to have a detrimental effect on their well-being. They can end up being aware of the effect of being this way but be oblivious to the cause.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Outcome&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There is the chance that they will often feel as though they are running on empty. So, feeling drained and emotionally malnourished will be something that they are used to, and they could often feel frustrated and agitated.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Then again, they could have a number of ways to push this information out of their conscious awareness. For example, their awareness could go fully into their head, which will allow them to more or less completely lose touch with the information in their body.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Main Position&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In general, one could spend most of their time in their head and so it is to be expected that they won&#39;t have a good connection with their emotional needs. For them to be in touch with their emotional needs, they will need to be in touch with their body.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It might not matter if they are by themselves or in the company of others, either, as this could be where their point of awareness typically is. Nonetheless, it could be a lot easier for them to connect to their emotional needs when they are in their own company.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;No Chance&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Naturally, in order for them to fulfil their emotional needs, they will need to be aware of them and express them when they are around others. If the first part doesn&#39;t take place, it will be highly unlikely that the second part will take place.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;With this in mind, for their life to change, it will be essential for them to develop a better connection with their emotional needs. From here, they can go about fulfilling some of them themselves and some of them with the help of others.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A Closer Look&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When it comes to their emotional needs, this will relate to their need for attention, intimacy, love, affection, support, appreciation and acceptance. What also stands out is that some of these will relate to their physical needs.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For example, being held or touched will take care of a physical need and it will take care of one or more emotional needs. If one spends a lot of time in their head, it is to be expected that most if not all of their physical needs will also be ignored.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Out of their Control&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Taking into account how important both their emotional and physical needs are, it can seem strange as to why one would have the tendency to lose touch with these needs. What should be normal is for them to stay connected to their needs when they are in their own company and around others.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If they were to think about how long they have been this way, they may find that they have been this way for as long as they can remember. Due to this, they could believe that this is just how they are and were even born this way.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://articlespan1.blogspot.com/feeds/3018749457982358091/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://articlespan1.blogspot.com/2022/01/can-developmental-trauma-cause-someone_5.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/7398534943842636175/posts/default/3018749457982358091'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/7398534943842636175/posts/default/3018749457982358091'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://articlespan1.blogspot.com/2022/01/can-developmental-trauma-cause-someone_5.html' title='Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Disconnect From Their Needs?'/><author><name>Blogrid3rd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13540741843926877824</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7398534943842636175.post-6836742811172045188</id><published>2022-01-05T23:15:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2022-01-05T23:15:04.904-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Feel Helpless?</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;In general, someone can have the inclination to &lt;a href=&quot;https://techiebuz.com/&quot;&gt;feel helpless&lt;/a&gt;, and this is likely to make it hard for them to live a fulfilling life. What this comes down to is that they won&#39;t feel as though they are able to do anything to change their life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is likely to show that this is more than just &lt;a href=&quot;https://dailymoneyout.com/&quot;&gt;something&lt;/a&gt; that they feel, though, as it could be something that has permeated their whole being. It is then not just going to be that they feel helpless; they will be helpless.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Going Upwards&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If something does happen and they end up feeling &lt;a href=&quot;https://techandtravels.com/&quot;&gt;differen&lt;/a&gt;t, it is unlikely to be long until they fall right back down again. When this happens, it might take a little while for them to adapt to how they feel.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The reason for this is that experiencing a sense of power will have allowed them to feel good and then, to go back to how they were before will be even harder, if only for a short while. Due to this, they might prefer to stay as they are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;For Example&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There are a number of things that might allow them to rise up, albeit briefly. These can include: receiving money, receiving attention, being in a relationship, exercising and having sex.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;How they feel when they experience one of these things or another will be so different to how they usually feel that they might often try to hold onto the experience. When this happens, it will be difficult for them to surrender to the experience and to fully embrace it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Other Elements&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;As they often feel helpless, it is also likely to mean that they will often feel down and depressed. This can be seen as a natural consequence of feeling powerless and not feeling as if they have much of an effect on their life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When they feel this way, their whole body could feel very heavy and weighed down. They won&#39;t have anything on top of them but it will be as though they are at the bottom of a fallen building.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Looking Back&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If they were to think about how long they have experienced life in this way, they may find that they have more or less always been this way. So, for as long as they can remember, they will have been out of touch with their personal power.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;They could believe that they were born this way and this is then how they will always be. Based on this, they will have been born feeling powerless and there won&#39;t be anything that they can do about it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One Outlook&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;However, if they were to reach out for support, they could end up being told that they need to master their mind. Their &#39;negative&#39; thoughts will be the problem and, once, they are able to replace these with &#39;positive&#39; thoughts, they will start to feel different.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In other words, what is going on for them up top will be the issue, not what is going on anywhere else. This mind-based approach may work or it might only work for a short while.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A Surface Level Approach&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Even if it does work, it might only repress what is truly going on for them. What this comes down to is that what is taking place in their mind, along with how they feel can be an effect of what is going on for them at a deeper level.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What is seen as the problem is then a symptom of what is going on for them in their unconscious mind/body. The challenge is that if one lives in a society that is mind centred and believes that someone begins and ends with their conscious mind, the cause won&#39;t be dealt with.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Going Deeper&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;With this in mind, if someone has felt helpless for as long as they can remember, it can show that their early years were not very nurturing. When they were an infant and then a toddler, they may have often been left.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When they were given attention, it may have often been mssatuned care. Consequently, they wouldn&#39;t have received the emotional nutrients that they needed to be able to grow and develop in the right way.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A Loveless Environment&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The only way for them to handle the pain that they experienced would have been to disconnect from themselves. This would have also caused their body to go into a shut down, collapsed state.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://articlespan1.blogspot.com/feeds/6836742811172045188/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://articlespan1.blogspot.com/2022/01/can-developmental-trauma-cause-someone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/7398534943842636175/posts/default/6836742811172045188'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='https://www.blogger.com/feeds/7398534943842636175/posts/default/6836742811172045188'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='https://articlespan1.blogspot.com/2022/01/can-developmental-trauma-cause-someone.html' title='Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Feel Helpless?'/><author><name>Blogrid3rd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13540741843926877824</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7398534943842636175.post-6411544703135026692</id><published>2022-01-05T23:12:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2022-01-05T23:12:50.822-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Say That Again</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Actor Humphrey Bogart did not say, &quot;Play it again, Sam,&quot; in the 1942 film &quot;Casablanca.&quot; His co-star, Ingrid Bergman, said to the piano player at &quot;Rick&#39;s &lt;a href=&quot;https://brel.in&quot;&gt;Cafe Americai&lt;/a&gt;n Nightclub,&quot; &quot;Play it once, Sam, for old time&#39;s sake. Play &#39;As Time Goes By.&#39;&quot; The misquote is memorable. But, how did folks believe that Bogart said it?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&quot;Me Tarzan, you Jane.&quot; This quotation is explained by an interview in which actor Johnny Weissmuller said that his role in &quot;Tarzan the Ape man&quot; &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thisisknightsbridgeb2b.com/&quot;&gt;did not require&lt;/a&gt; his skill as an actor. Explainable, yes, but he did not provide the quote in the film.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;William Shatner, playing Captain Kirk in the TV series and films titled, &quot;Star Trek,&quot; did not say, &quot;Beam me up Scotty,&quot; in any of them.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What did Tom Hanks&#39; character, &quot;&lt;a href=&quot;https://www.seeklms.com&quot;&gt;Forrest Gump&lt;/a&gt;&quot; say about a box of chocolate? Web Search to see if what Gump said in the film is what you heard. These are harmless mis-quotations, but sometimes a misquotation of a real person might change a human outcome.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Web Search, Matthew 28: 16-20. Jesus, three days after his crucifixion and death, defeated death. He appeared to his surviving eleven disciples, as he foretold. Disciple Matthew quoted the resurrected Jesus. You will not find, &quot;Now go forth and grow the Christian Church,&quot; among Jesus&#39; words. Yet, many Christians believe that Jesus commanded his disciples to do that. Rather, he told his disciples to go out and make more disciples of (I think the meaning is &quot;in&quot;) all of the nations. This command opened up the path to salvation for everyone, not just the Hebrew People to whom Jesus was sent. These verses are known as &quot;The Great Commission.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Matthew wrote what he heard (the way he remembered it). Matthew also wrote Matthew 18: 20, which (I believe) describes the Christian Church as at least two people who cooperate to worship God (in three persons: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit). Jesus said in these verses that he would be there with them. That fits with verse 20 of Matthew 28: 16-20. To me, the emphasis appears to be on a disciple who knows and can teach the commands of Jesus to another person who is willing to learn, to accept, and obey the teaching, which enables that second person to become a disciple and teach someone else.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Resource Box: In the name of Jesus Christ, pray to Father God. Ask him for his grace. 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